"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It truely is the season of love

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I know this sounds way too freakin obvious and been talk about a couple of times, but let me say this anyways, personally I think the mall is one of the best places to approach and talk to women right now. This is those times of the year where the mall is really jam packed with a variety of women and I'm betting if you have a descent amount of social skills and charm, don't act like an idiot, you'll land a couple of numbers - dates or two at the minimimum. This is this time of the year where your mall is jam packed everyday and you know what that means - plenty of chicks and love to go around. Hell, I was in the mall recently and I don't live in a big city, but the mall was jam packed all day and probably going to be that way for the next two weeks. Newbies and experience Djs can all benefit from this scenario, just my two cents.

You guys have a happy and kick ass holiday.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The only problem is that many women may be stressed out and extremely busy, not to mention operating on a very strict schedule.
 

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Share your great inner energy.

Originally posted by Datawolf
The only problem is that many women may be stressed out and extremely busy, not to mention operating on a very strict schedule.

Hey man, get in the holiday spirit. This is the time of the year to pass the love around, in other words learn to feel GREAT. If you feel great and have a sense of high inner energy in you, the chicks are going to notice.
 

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Originally posted by Datawolf
The only problem is that many women may be stressed out and extremely busy, not to mention operating on a very strict schedule.
Did you confuse us with the mainstream where men should actually give a sh!t or fear the b!tch may be "busy"?

Its called self esteem. As if she has anything better to do than be approached by a God, this is the stuff she dreams about.

And yep Roly your right. Tis the loneliest time of the year where every man woman and dog is scrambling over itself to feel wanted. Chicks are ripe for the plucking, you couldnt ask for a better time.
 

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Re: Share your great inner energy.

Originally posted by Roly
Hey man, get in the holiday spirit. This is the time of the year to pass the love around, in other words learn to feel GREAT. If you feel great and have a sense of high inner energy in you, the chicks are going to notice.
I see what you're getting at. I guess I was just projecting my own mindset in that I don't like strangers pestering me when I'm busy.

Good advice, I'll keep that in mind.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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