"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

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0-6/21 done
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok,i can concentrate better now. 2/21 going.

again. 3rd trial.
 

don juan jr

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1/21 finished

i don't think anyone answered my question, is it ok if i touch myself a little and not ***?
 

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8/21 broke the record :rockon:

off course it is, but you only make it harder when you do that, bro
 

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Damn, couldn't handle it no more :p

1st try: 7/21
2nd try: 9/21
3rd try: 1/21 (pending)

Well, at least I'm progressing... :)

I'm gonna nail that 21!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lasted about a week this time...

I'm goin for the full 21 this time and beyond...

1/21

SEE YOU AT THE T-O-P!!!
 

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5/21....It seems alot of the guys in here are 17-20.....to you I say Good Luck, you're gonna need it

I'm alittle older so it should be easierI stopped when I was 16 for about 3 months and after the first month it was cake....when I finally came though, holy ****, probably the most intense one I've ever had.
 

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Day 1

I don't think going for a million billion days is necessary, but i'll do a few weeks and decide where i'll go from there depending on how I feel. It's nice to have a place to post about it, otherwise I probably wouldn't take it seriously.
 

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10/21, second time!


It was easy the first time, and easy now, as long as I stick to the goal. And have sex in the weekends. :)

It feels much better, I'll readily admit. Jacking off takes time, and you feel all mellowed out afterward, and it's often a form of procrastination. Now that I don't have it anymore, I detect other forms of procrastination easier too.

All that internet porn is a severe temptation, though.... By the way, have you seen this? The Internet is for Porn, performed by Horde characters from World of Warcraft!

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=5430343841227974645
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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2/21...

Getting prepared for a change in career...and in addition to giving up wacking it, I'm giving up herb, and meat this summer...

SEE YOU AT THE T-O-P!!!
 

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2/21
 

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6/21....why are we doing this again?
 

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Well I couldn't handle this my first time, only made it 7/21 and that was a week or so ago and I haven't been able stop myself so i'm going to try again starting tomorrow.
 

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back to 1/21

just taking pitstops between the try's :crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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3/21...

this time, i'll get it.
 

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on day 42 today...and this the thread that got me started.

i really wasn't counting any more...had to go back to one of my posts to see how many days it had been.

but just wanted to post to inspire you guys to keep up...it's really not difficult once you quit for 1-2 weeks.

keep it up...:up:
 

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day 6/21 1st try
starting to get really hard... but gotta not masturbate
my **** feels bigger and stronger and harder, I'm more horny and some nice tits became hella nicer, some ugly ones just became uglier...

I feel so awake and energetic, I feel like I can do anything, prom's tonight, I feel I'm gonna **** a chic tonight
 

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Well, I'm trying this.

Today is 1/21.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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