Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

Dogfish

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8/21...and i blew it. ****.

now i feel down and stuff. meh.

tomorrow's a better day.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MagikDude

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Ah, my first post. I've been lurking for awhile, and already on day 3/21, tried once before, managed 7-8 days, I notice the energy increase that's for sure. I'm like a dynamo of labor doing this though, makes it a b**** to go to sleep. Oh well, works off for tomorrow due to a snag on the site, so I can sleep in and get some other stuff done.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
poor guys. I guess this is all about self control.
The only poor me is having a hard time getting to sleep with all the energy this has been giving me, Granted I only ever fooled it 3 times a week at most usually, but that energy is like a drug for me.

Day 1 is always the worst, because you feel lethargic from the relaxation hormones. Those days I'm lucky to get off my ass except to take a piss or cook food.

Day 2 I start to go back to "normal" me mode again, not high on energy, but not exactly slowed down either, then towards the end of the day, the surge kicks in and BOOM, Super Dude.......

Day 3 - Last time, I was on fire, looks like that's where I'm headed to be this time. It'll be scary to see how many errands and junk I get done today.

And I dunno about you guys, but not jerkin' gives me more motivation to actually bang a real woman, thus I start talking more, and eventually get a date/lay/widget/whatever by one means or another if I keep at it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Holland

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5/21
starting to get more sexual dreams (which isn't bad :D as long as I wont climax in sleep)
 

PumpNightmare

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I remember this feeling the day after lifting wieghts for the first time. Soar yet incredible. Feels great! God, now that I'm back in class, I'm even hornier. I walked in my first class at the last minute and sat down. Then I looked to my right for a moment and saw this HB9 looking at me, but then she looked quickly away...may of been looking my general direction, but she was only two seets to my left. Probably a missed my oppurtunity...professor walked in seconds latter, class started, then ended, and it she was gone by the time I picked up my bookbag. Oh well...there will be more oppurtunities.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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il_duce

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9/21

Like someone earlier mentioned, I've also been having problems falling asleep. Too much energy :yes:
 

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Day 4/21 - today's the start of my morning gym routine.

Tomorrow will be day 5 - a personal best :D
 

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5/21 (opt.1)....Today was good. I'm liking all this testosterone!
 

Dogfish

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starting over once more...
12.5.06: 1/21 days.

i hate sitting around bored ><
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PumpNightmare

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5/21 and going strong. Feeling the violent urge to destroy something like the last time I hit five days. I might try to hit the bars tonight, but all my frineds are out of town for the summer (at least till B session), so it would be alone. Damn, I hate this...Tally is boring now and I'm high energy and horny.
 

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Just go out alone, man, to keep the habit.
 

PumpNightmare

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It's not a habit when you've only been at once...a strip bar six months ago....but I haven't tried going to the local bars here to sarge. I might suck up the $20 I need for a cab to get back home and try it tonight (no car). This no masturbation thing really is driving me nuts with loads of energy. Plus the gym seems to given me even more, even though I'm still a little soar.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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