It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

[twilight]

Excellent post Jipii! I really like this quote here (who is this quote from by the way?):

"Stop the masturbation, cut it off. Get your sexual gratification from real sex. If you are only jacking off, you are fooling your unconcious mind to make it think that masturbation is real sex. Stop it right now and get real sex. When you stop masurbation you are more active, you will approach more women and you will see them as only source of real sex gratification, not your hand. It is essetial. Force yourself not to masturbate untill you fill your sexual desire with the roots: real sex with women bodies. That way your mind will be educated in few moths after few sexual encounters."

 

[Æquitas]

**** **** **** I cant believe it! I blew it each time I watch a porn, and I mean each damn time. I've tried to watch porn and not blow it at the same time. Yet when its time to stop, I keep watching more and more until my horniness exploded and I need a towel. **** **** ****.

 

[MaverickBow]

**** **** **** I cant believe it! I blew it each time I watch a porn, and I mean each damn time. I've tried to watch porn and not blow it at the same time. Yet when its time to stop, I keep watching more and more until my horniness exploded and I need a towel. **** **** ****.

As I said before. The only reason for watching porn is to masterbate. So if you are trying to stop spanking that monkey then STOP WATCHING PORN!!

Its as simple as that.

 

[Oxide]

As of 5 minutes ago I almost broke the 16 day streak. Great looking girls in porn are fukking evil when it comes to temptation.

One thing is for sure -i am having more sexual dreams, and pretty wild ones at that. Horniness is going up rapidly, this will probably end in something.....

 

[PumpNightmare]

I tried last week...lasted four days. Posting here now to try to help me stick with it. It's been one day now. Twenty more to go. Good buy pr0n. I deleted 30 gigs in Janaury in hopes to cut down. It turns out I only downloaded more, new pr0n or got off on fully clothed pics. <.< I need to break the habit. I know I waste to much time in a day visiting sites like empornium and 4chan type sites.

One day and couting as of 2006/4/19

 

[chickenlegs03]

1/21: success
2/21: success
3/21: success
4/21: success
5/21: (today, pending)

 

[twilight]

7/21

 

[muttley]

2/21 - 18 april 06
:wave:

4/21 - 20 april 06

 

[chickenlegs03]

1/21: success
2/21: success
3/21: success
4/21: success
5/21: success
6/21: (today, pending)

 

[longwood]

I'm in seriously, but tommorrow will have to be day one for me because, well... u know

 

[PumpNightmare]

Alright, 2/21. And I deleted every scrap of pr0n on my computer to help me out. I did four days last week...I can do it again...and longer...maybe. I don't know if it's wise to do with finals next week, but maybe it'll save me from me wasting time from jacking off (literaly!).

 

[twilight]

8/21

Day Eight. Interesting side effect my dreams have gotten more vivid.

 

[Byezbozhniy]

This thread has cracked me up. I commend all of you guys. Since starting masturbation I've not gone more than 5 days without it, how you guys have managed to abstain so long I'll never know. You must be getting tail regular, that's the only possible explanation for this. Count me in though. This will no doubt be tough, but is something I've been thinking of trying for a while.

1/0 - Feeling pressure already.

 

[twilight]

>This thread has cracked me up. I commend all of you guys. Since starting masturbation I've not gone more than 5 days without it, how you guys have managed to abstain so long I'll never know.

Well, you're about to find out my friend...

>You must be getting tail regular, that's the only possible explanation for this. Count me in though. This will no doubt be tough, but is something I've been thinking of trying for a while.

Most guys in this thread are not. It requires discipline, checking in everyday sharing your progress, drawing strength from each other collectively, and TOTAL deletion of ALL porn in your possession. If one doesn't do this, from what we've seen and experienced YOU WILL FAIL. We are also taking this opportunity to approach more women, refine our skills, and through this gratify our sexual desires exclusively through real sex. And believe me, the extra testosterone will give you that push you need to talk to more women.

1/0 - Feeling pressure already.[/QUOTE]

And that would be 1/21 for you actually lol.

Welcome.

 

[PumpNightmare]

Okay, 3/21. I'm feeling horny as all hell. Even though I've only had four hours of sleep during hte past two days (finals coming up next week), I feel like I have energy. But damn it, it's hard to keep my mind off of sex, even w/o pr0n on my computer or me staying out away from home. I can do this...

 

[big_pimp]

i just went 10 days and i had alot more energy when i didnt wack off but now i am on day 2 and this time im goin for 21 days!

 

[Eccentric]

Hmm... I'll try this. :rock:

 

[twilight]

9/21

 

[chickenlegs03]

and TOTAL deletion of ALL porn in your possession. If one doesn't do this, from what we've seen and experienced YOU WILL FAIL

I disagree. I never deleted my porn, and I'm doing great. In fact, I did what Oxide does...so I don't think porn will make or break you.

However, it's been a waste of time, so I think I'm going to stop watching porn altogether from now on.

I won't delete it, I'll just stop watching.

1/21 - 6/21: success
7/21: (today, pending) : the day I also stop watching porn

 

[twilight]

I won't delete it, I'll just stop watching.

Do you hear yourself? That doesn't even make sense. You've only been at it one week...I'm talking about over the long haul here. Wait til you get around that 2 week mark. Then you'll understand what I'm saying. Oxide deleted 30 gigs at first, yet *almost* lost it a few days ago (on his 16th day) to the porn he kept. And we haven't heard from him in a few days. If you wanna take that chance, that's completely up to you. Check the old posts in the other thread, the evidence is all there. Guys have already walked the road you're taking including myself. And check my first post in this thread, no judgements but be real with yourself. If you couldn't handle it up til now what makes this time any different? I just want to see you succeed.