"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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it sounds like everyone here has so much free

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has soo much free time; Working out, women, going clubbing, partying..etc

Jeez, I wonder what you people do for a living and what your future goals are?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by aiforce_juan
has soo much free time; Working out, women, going clubbing, partying..etc

Jeez, I wonder what you people do for a living and what your future goals are?
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You don't have time; you take the time.
 
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(I'm guessing) A fair amount of the people here are students, myself included.
 
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I work 12 hours a day, workout 2 and as of late spend 2-5 hours a night with my current GF.. prolly check on the site once a day and post a few times... Tnight shes sick as a dawg and i have more free time because my ass aint getting sick !
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm good at my job, so it affords me lots of time to jack around online. Check it out: I'm getting paid right now!

:rockon:

Oh yeah! Beastie Boys "Fight for Your Right" just came up on iTunes shuffle.
 
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There's 168 hours in a week. If you sleep 8 hours a day, you're down to 112. If you work (and drive to/from work) for 60 hours a week, you have a well rested 52 free hours a week. I hope you're not devoting that much time to work, but many people do.

Maybe you should watch less TV?
 
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