"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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it sounds like everyone here has so much free

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aiforce_juan

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has soo much free time; Working out, women, going clubbing, partying..etc

Jeez, I wonder what you people do for a living and what your future goals are?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by aiforce_juan
has soo much free time; Working out, women, going clubbing, partying..etc

Jeez, I wonder what you people do for a living and what your future goals are?
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You don't have time; you take the time.
 
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The Juan and only

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(I'm guessing) A fair amount of the people here are students, myself included.
 
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heater528

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I work 12 hours a day, workout 2 and as of late spend 2-5 hours a night with my current GF.. prolly check on the site once a day and post a few times... Tnight shes sick as a dawg and i have more free time because my ass aint getting sick !
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm good at my job, so it affords me lots of time to jack around online. Check it out: I'm getting paid right now!

:rockon:

Oh yeah! Beastie Boys "Fight for Your Right" just came up on iTunes shuffle.
 
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Shiftkey

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There's 168 hours in a week. If you sleep 8 hours a day, you're down to 112. If you work (and drive to/from work) for 60 hours a week, you have a well rested 52 free hours a week. I hope you're not devoting that much time to work, but many people do.

Maybe you should watch less TV?
 
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