"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It Really Doesnt Matter What Your Opener Is

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I told him his dream girl was more than likely nothing special. Turns out this broad has more issues including 2 kids, 1 that she had at 18. But I still agree he should keep her around for good times.
She is recreational use only because of 2 kids and ex-lesbian if he's interested in pursuing a casual sex arrangement.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Turns out this broad has more issues including 2 kids, 1 that she had at 18.
And ex lesbian who has had 'cosmetic' surgery. I guess the title should be updated to something like 'it really doesn't matter what your opener is to get the number of a weirdo with more baggage than an airplane' :p
 

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And ex lesbian who has had 'cosmetic' surgery. I guess the title should be updated to something like 'it really doesn't matter what your opener is to get the number of a weirdo with more baggage than an airplane' :p
I figured it’d benefit the forum to know that just because you pulled a chick, doesn’t mean it’s anything amazing. That way dudes who struggle can stop hyping up their prey before they even go after it.
 

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She is recreational use only because of 2 kids and ex-lesbian if he's interested in pursuing a casual sex arrangement.
I'm definitely going to ask a girl "hey out of curiosity you ever been only attracted to females? like be a lesbian at a time?"

Because 100% of all hoes I know had a lesbian-phase.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Of course.
And the same can be said for what you say after the opener etc - e.g 'your game'

If you are her type, you just need to not be super socially weird and uncalibrated. That's basically the bar. The fact that people need to take bootcamps and stuff to learn this is a separate issue lol

Similarly, no great opener or transition or PUA lines and tricks and NLP etc is going to help if you are NOT her type at all

This isn't a game of 'skill'.
When i was an official PUA there was a guy that looked like the human equivalent of Shrek. Most people would consider him ugly. He was also a student of Ross Jeffries and i winged him on a pickup of a HB10. He ended up laying her. After the fact she was freaked out about it because he was so far from his type. It definitely does work and there were numerous examples of that back in the day.
 

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My buddy knew a guy in the community whose opener in bars was "let's fukk." (After meeting/introduction)

He said it half-jokingly but it would work sometimes and at least get a laugh and a conversation.

Can't confirm personally as it wasn't my friend - but with the right attitude and vibe you could do it. Wrong attitude gets you the bum's rush.
 

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I figured it’d benefit the forum to know that just because you pulled a chick, doesn’t mean it’s anything amazing. That way dudes who struggle can stop hyping up their prey before they even go after it.
Getting a phone number and a date agreement means nothing.
 
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