It pays not to chase after a rejection

[El Payaso]

I matched with a girl on Tinder and decided to be direct and straight to the point. I told her something raunchy and said "oops damn autocorrect". Look at the attached picture for the rest of the conversation.



I ended up asking for her number and she's coming over tonight.

She's pretty hot. She was probably shocked and felt it as a blow to her ego that I wasn't going to chase her after she shut me down the first time. We'll see if she shows up and I'll post an update later.

 

[Glassguy]

Chasing is for the weak and needy, those without options.

I've had several online lays after they blew me off. None from chasing, all from being direct and blowing them off.

 

[AlphaNate]

Tinder is a crap shoot. Some girls will respond to things that others will ignore. Also, that's a man

 

[Juanto]

Let us know if she did show up, mate.

 

[devilkingx2]

tinder girls are easy and she sounds like a total b!tch

 

[El Payaso]

We ended up actually doing "Netflix and chill" when she came over. Lol. I made some drinks and we watched a movie. During the movie, I pulled her closer, cuddled her for a bit and kissed her. She was so receptive that she was almost raping me with my mouth. I pulled off her top, brought out her breasts from her bra and sucked on her nipples. Gave some attention to her neck and she started moaning.

I tried pulling her pants off but she gave me some LMR. "I'm not that kind of girl. Well, I am but just not for anyone." I smiled and said "Okay." I resumed kissing her and started rubbing her cl!t through her pants. She was getting seriously wet and moaning hard. At that point, she just pulled her pants off and told me take mine off.

From there, it was on. We went at it like rabbits for a while. She even swallowed at the end. When she was leaving, she said to let her know anytime I want to hang out.

 

[Juanto]

and that is a home run , well done

 

[ubercat]

I like the way you handled the ASD basically like a sh1t test pretended it just didn't happen. After a hard week lapping up all the validation from Thirsty Losers on Tinder she probably needed a good pounding.

 

[ubercat]

Actually slightly off topic I really believe woman need regular sex to balance them out emotionally. My girlfriend was malfunctioning over the last couple of days. Lots of accusations jealousy and s*** tests. It all eventually came down to the fact that she's been missing me and needed a good servicing which she got last night and this morning.

Might explain why all the cat ladies are so crazy.

 

[AlphaNate]

My man!

 

[Juanto]

May I ask if she was in person the same as in the pics?

 

[El Payaso]

May I ask if she was in person the same as in the pics?

She looked better in person.

 

[TheGambino]

So true, every time I tried to ask a girl out after she rejected me (sometimes we dated for a longer time or we had just 1 date or just number closed = all early stages) they keep rejecting you. Not worth it.

Once she loses interest or she doesnt have much to start with your on check mate means, delete number ghost the fvck on. She might reach out and still its 90% of the time only validation seeking.

Start with a fresh new girl that is highly interested for the best results and try not to fvck up. El Payaso is 100% on point here.

Case closed.

 

[devilkingx2]

So true, every time I tried to ask a girl out after she rejected me (sometimes we dated for a longer time or we had just 1 date or just number closed = all early stages) they keep rejecting you. Not worth it.

pretty much, this thread is about the exception to a rule

 

[mikey2012]

Rejection takes 2 forms
1) Not replying
2) Replying saying they are busy with no counter offer