"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It never works if you fake it and that defeats the purpose

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bigguns22

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I swear, whenever I've tried to be a challenge, act uninterested or ****y and funny, it never worked. Understand what I just said.......WHEN I TRIED. I think women have a sixth sense about guys. If I'm truly not interested, they always respond. The only problem with this, is that you only attract the women you're not interested in.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kevin Feng

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I think the answer to your question is two fold. People have a certain "value" about them which I believe is determined by your personality, earning power, looks, etc.

If a person is inherently lower value than you, they'll be attracted to you simply just for your value. Again, it's all subjective, but I think there are some fair lines to draw. (I.E Brad Pitt is of higher value than me).

So, being uninterested is just a by product of your assessment towards her, you recognize she's lower value and you act accordingly.

Not to mention too, attraction is all relative. If you started banging a bunch of 10's all the time, it wouldn't be as cool as the first time obviously, and it would just become your new standard.
 
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just dont be interested in women at all, then you'll naturally not appear interested... then once you become interested, youll chase her away cause you dont know wtf youre doing.
Lol

the key is to understand why you act a certain way around women youre interested in - you want something from them. you can be interested in women yet not pressure them or make them feel weirded out by your interest. you need to reassess your life and behaviours and understand why you behave the way you do in certain situations.
why act differently around a girl youre interested in? there is no reason to.
 
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