"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It never works if you fake it and that defeats the purpose

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bigguns22

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I swear, whenever I've tried to be a challenge, act uninterested or ****y and funny, it never worked. Understand what I just said.......WHEN I TRIED. I think women have a sixth sense about guys. If I'm truly not interested, they always respond. The only problem with this, is that you only attract the women you're not interested in.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kevin Feng

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I think the answer to your question is two fold. People have a certain "value" about them which I believe is determined by your personality, earning power, looks, etc.

If a person is inherently lower value than you, they'll be attracted to you simply just for your value. Again, it's all subjective, but I think there are some fair lines to draw. (I.E Brad Pitt is of higher value than me).

So, being uninterested is just a by product of your assessment towards her, you recognize she's lower value and you act accordingly.

Not to mention too, attraction is all relative. If you started banging a bunch of 10's all the time, it wouldn't be as cool as the first time obviously, and it would just become your new standard.
 
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just dont be interested in women at all, then you'll naturally not appear interested... then once you become interested, youll chase her away cause you dont know wtf youre doing.
Lol

the key is to understand why you act a certain way around women youre interested in - you want something from them. you can be interested in women yet not pressure them or make them feel weirded out by your interest. you need to reassess your life and behaviours and understand why you behave the way you do in certain situations.
why act differently around a girl youre interested in? there is no reason to.
 
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