"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It never works if you fake it and that defeats the purpose

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bigguns22

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I swear, whenever I've tried to be a challenge, act uninterested or ****y and funny, it never worked. Understand what I just said.......WHEN I TRIED. I think women have a sixth sense about guys. If I'm truly not interested, they always respond. The only problem with this, is that you only attract the women you're not interested in.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kevin Feng

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I think the answer to your question is two fold. People have a certain "value" about them which I believe is determined by your personality, earning power, looks, etc.

If a person is inherently lower value than you, they'll be attracted to you simply just for your value. Again, it's all subjective, but I think there are some fair lines to draw. (I.E Brad Pitt is of higher value than me).

So, being uninterested is just a by product of your assessment towards her, you recognize she's lower value and you act accordingly.

Not to mention too, attraction is all relative. If you started banging a bunch of 10's all the time, it wouldn't be as cool as the first time obviously, and it would just become your new standard.
 
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just dont be interested in women at all, then you'll naturally not appear interested... then once you become interested, youll chase her away cause you dont know wtf youre doing.
Lol

the key is to understand why you act a certain way around women youre interested in - you want something from them. you can be interested in women yet not pressure them or make them feel weirded out by your interest. you need to reassess your life and behaviours and understand why you behave the way you do in certain situations.
why act differently around a girl youre interested in? there is no reason to.
 
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