"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ever since I started doing this Ive noticed that females have being paying much more attention to what I do and what I say around them. I also know for a fact that the following tip has made me closer to being a DJ.
ME...{WITH A BIG SMILE ON MY FACE} how you're doing?

HER...Im doing good, how are you?

ME... {STILL SMILING AND DOING EYE CONTACT} IM DOING GOOD, BUT IM DOING BETTER NOW THAT I SEE YOU AGAIN.

LOOK OUT FOR THE CHANGE IN THEIR DEMEANOR, IT IS GOING TO CHANGE FROM A SIMPLE GREETING TO A FLIRTY MODE. THEY ARE GOING TO GIVE YOU A NERVOUS SMILE.

IF YOU DO THIS YOU ARE TELLING HER THAT YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO AND INTERESTED IN HER. YOU WILL NOT FALL IN THE LJBF ZONE BECAUSE YOU LET HER KNOW IMMEDIATELY THAT
A,, YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO HER
B,, LIKE POOKIE SAYS, YOU KNOW HOW TO EMBRACE YOUR SEXUALITY.
I HAVE 5 FEMALES THAT ARE INTERESTED IN ME AT MY JOB AND THIS IS HOW IT ALL STARTED.
DONT FORGET THE EYE CONTACT..
SEE YA...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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paraguayandj

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:D Thats what my granpa use to say the same thing to whoever he talked with.
 
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oye paraguayandj supongo que sos de paraguay no? yo soy de santa cruz, bolivia. que tal son las chicas por ahi? aqui son hechas las dificiles. nos vemos chau
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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isnt it How you doing and not how youre doing?????

didnt u get that from friends (program)?
 
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hhhmmm. I remember using that exact line in the dark ages (When i was the definative AFC, way before i found this place).

It never got me any sucess. It put women off me REALLY quickly.

I'm actually quite impressed / shocked that you're getting results with this.
But if it's working for you, great. I've done it.. &.. well.. it doesn't work for me.
 
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Originally posted by pootwo
hhhmmm. I remember using that exact line in the dark ages (When i was the definative AFC, way before i found this place).

It never got me any sucess. It put women off me REALLY quickly.

I'm actually quite impressed / shocked that you're getting results with this.
But if it's working for you, great. I've done it.. &.. well.. it doesn't work for me.
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It's not what you say, man, it's how you say it! If he's saying it in a confident DJ way, and you were saying it in an AFC way, then of course he will get results, and you won't.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I like this.
It sounds like it should work, and alot of fun to do.


Originally posted by tigre
oye paraguayandj supongo que sos de paraguay no? yo soy de santa cruz, bolivia. que tal son las chicas por ahi? aqui son hechas las dificiles. nos vemos chau
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rough translation:

he's talking to Paraguayandj asking him if he lives in paraguay
he's from santa cruz, bolivia

how do you get chicks

here they are dificult

peace out dawg
 
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It Never Fails Me..
ever since I started doing this Ive noticed that females have being paying much more attention to what I do and what I say around them. I also know for a fact that the following tip has made me closer to being a DJ.
ME...{WITH A BIG SMILE ON MY FACE} how you're doing?

HER...Im doing good, how are you?

ME... {STILL SMILING AND DOING EYE CONTACT} IM DOING GOOD, BUT IM DOING BETTER NOW THAT I SEE YOU AGAIN.

LOOK OUT FOR THE CHANGE IN THEIR DEMEANOR, IT IS GOING TO CHANGE FROM A SIMPLE GREETING TO A FLIRTY MODE. THEY ARE GOING TO GIVE YOU A NERVOUS SMILE.

IF YOU DO THIS YOU ARE TELLING HER THAT YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO AND INTERESTED IN HER. YOU WILL NOT FALL IN THE LJBF ZONE BECAUSE YOU LET HER KNOW IMMEDIATELY THAT
A,, YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO HER
B,, LIKE POOKIE SAYS, YOU KNOW HOW TO EMBRACE YOUR SEXUALITY.
I HAVE 5 FEMALES THAT ARE INTERESTED IN ME AT MY JOB AND THIS IS HOW IT ALL STARTED.
DONT FORGET THE EYE CONTACT..
SEE YA...

just be very careful on who you use this stuff. Ionce did it to my boss's wife and she change her attitude towars me immediately.
she started to flirt with me and almost got me in fired
 
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Originally posted by librito

just be very careful on who you use this stuff. Ionce did it to my boss's wife and she change her attitude towars me immediately.
she started to flirt with me and almost got me in fired
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lol that makes me laugh, of course its probably true, but yeah it doesn't matter what you say just how you say it and if you are congruent with everything you are doing at that moment
 
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