"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ever since I started doing this Ive noticed that females have being paying much more attention to what I do and what I say around them. I also know for a fact that the following tip has made me closer to being a DJ.
ME...{WITH A BIG SMILE ON MY FACE} how you're doing?

HER...Im doing good, how are you?

ME... {STILL SMILING AND DOING EYE CONTACT} IM DOING GOOD, BUT IM DOING BETTER NOW THAT I SEE YOU AGAIN.

LOOK OUT FOR THE CHANGE IN THEIR DEMEANOR, IT IS GOING TO CHANGE FROM A SIMPLE GREETING TO A FLIRTY MODE. THEY ARE GOING TO GIVE YOU A NERVOUS SMILE.

IF YOU DO THIS YOU ARE TELLING HER THAT YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO AND INTERESTED IN HER. YOU WILL NOT FALL IN THE LJBF ZONE BECAUSE YOU LET HER KNOW IMMEDIATELY THAT
A,, YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO HER
B,, LIKE POOKIE SAYS, YOU KNOW HOW TO EMBRACE YOUR SEXUALITY.
I HAVE 5 FEMALES THAT ARE INTERESTED IN ME AT MY JOB AND THIS IS HOW IT ALL STARTED.
DONT FORGET THE EYE CONTACT..
SEE YA...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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:D Thats what my granpa use to say the same thing to whoever he talked with.
 
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oye paraguayandj supongo que sos de paraguay no? yo soy de santa cruz, bolivia. que tal son las chicas por ahi? aqui son hechas las dificiles. nos vemos chau
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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isnt it How you doing and not how youre doing?????

didnt u get that from friends (program)?
 
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hhhmmm. I remember using that exact line in the dark ages (When i was the definative AFC, way before i found this place).

It never got me any sucess. It put women off me REALLY quickly.

I'm actually quite impressed / shocked that you're getting results with this.
But if it's working for you, great. I've done it.. &.. well.. it doesn't work for me.
 
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Originally posted by pootwo
hhhmmm. I remember using that exact line in the dark ages (When i was the definative AFC, way before i found this place).

It never got me any sucess. It put women off me REALLY quickly.

I'm actually quite impressed / shocked that you're getting results with this.
But if it's working for you, great. I've done it.. &.. well.. it doesn't work for me.
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It's not what you say, man, it's how you say it! If he's saying it in a confident DJ way, and you were saying it in an AFC way, then of course he will get results, and you won't.

:)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I like this.
It sounds like it should work, and alot of fun to do.


Originally posted by tigre
oye paraguayandj supongo que sos de paraguay no? yo soy de santa cruz, bolivia. que tal son las chicas por ahi? aqui son hechas las dificiles. nos vemos chau
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rough translation:

he's talking to Paraguayandj asking him if he lives in paraguay
he's from santa cruz, bolivia

how do you get chicks

here they are dificult

peace out dawg
 
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It Never Fails Me..
ever since I started doing this Ive noticed that females have being paying much more attention to what I do and what I say around them. I also know for a fact that the following tip has made me closer to being a DJ.
ME...{WITH A BIG SMILE ON MY FACE} how you're doing?

HER...Im doing good, how are you?

ME... {STILL SMILING AND DOING EYE CONTACT} IM DOING GOOD, BUT IM DOING BETTER NOW THAT I SEE YOU AGAIN.

LOOK OUT FOR THE CHANGE IN THEIR DEMEANOR, IT IS GOING TO CHANGE FROM A SIMPLE GREETING TO A FLIRTY MODE. THEY ARE GOING TO GIVE YOU A NERVOUS SMILE.

IF YOU DO THIS YOU ARE TELLING HER THAT YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO AND INTERESTED IN HER. YOU WILL NOT FALL IN THE LJBF ZONE BECAUSE YOU LET HER KNOW IMMEDIATELY THAT
A,, YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO HER
B,, LIKE POOKIE SAYS, YOU KNOW HOW TO EMBRACE YOUR SEXUALITY.
I HAVE 5 FEMALES THAT ARE INTERESTED IN ME AT MY JOB AND THIS IS HOW IT ALL STARTED.
DONT FORGET THE EYE CONTACT..
SEE YA...

just be very careful on who you use this stuff. Ionce did it to my boss's wife and she change her attitude towars me immediately.
she started to flirt with me and almost got me in fired
 
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Originally posted by librito

just be very careful on who you use this stuff. Ionce did it to my boss's wife and she change her attitude towars me immediately.
she started to flirt with me and almost got me in fired
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lol that makes me laugh, of course its probably true, but yeah it doesn't matter what you say just how you say it and if you are congruent with everything you are doing at that moment
 
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