PeasantPlayer
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Nah I;m a lone wolf looking to explore the world and myself for as long as I can live. I want to bang who ever when ever and when I want to be alone make them leave
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
**** it, lets get married
- Thread starter cola
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
She'd have to be the type that would kill my enemies if they came knocking...
Or I'd have to be able to trust her in a "prisoner's dilemma" situation. E.G we've just ripped off a bank, the money is hidden, and the cops have us separated. Each one of us is told that we can go free if we only rat out the other...but if neither of us rat, we both go free.
AND I would have to feel strongly enough about her that I would do the same.
Reptar
Don Juan
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Last sentence is too manipulative. Although the intent is good. I feel ya though, emotionless sex does get empty at some point. But hey, it's still fun!
I wouldn't ask this question on this forum, or at least get an opposing perspective as well. It's not that I disagree with what would be answered, but it's pretty one-dimensional. Monogamy blah blah blah women use men, betaization, open relationships, etc., I haven't read about this in so long I forgot the terms lol.
My main point is: Majority of guys on here have not had a successful marriage before, and likely never will. So this is the wrong place to ask about marriage. Find a place where marriages are done successfully (I can only think of a handful of places), and even then, that's difficult because "successfully" is person-dependent. My parents have been married for decades, and will probably stay married.
Does that mean they're successful because they're stayed together and not cheated? (as far as I know lol). To some, maybe. To others, success would mean more than that, it would mean consistent great sex or emotional fulfillment, motivating and inspiring one another, etc., it depends on how you define success I guess.
Reptar
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PantyWhisperer
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Why thank you. I chose it myself.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.