PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Nah I;m a lone wolf looking to explore the world and myself for as long as I can live. I want to bang who ever when ever and when I want to be alone make them leave
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
**** it, lets get married
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
She'd have to be the type that would kill my enemies if they came knocking...
Or I'd have to be able to trust her in a "prisoner's dilemma" situation. E.G we've just ripped off a bank, the money is hidden, and the cops have us separated. Each one of us is told that we can go free if we only rat out the other...but if neither of us rat, we both go free.
AND I would have to feel strongly enough about her that I would do the same.
Reptar
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Last sentence is too manipulative. Although the intent is good. I feel ya though, emotionless sex does get empty at some point. But hey, it's still fun!
I wouldn't ask this question on this forum, or at least get an opposing perspective as well. It's not that I disagree with what would be answered, but it's pretty one-dimensional. Monogamy blah blah blah women use men, betaization, open relationships, etc., I haven't read about this in so long I forgot the terms lol.
My main point is: Majority of guys on here have not had a successful marriage before, and likely never will. So this is the wrong place to ask about marriage. Find a place where marriages are done successfully (I can only think of a handful of places), and even then, that's difficult because "successfully" is person-dependent. My parents have been married for decades, and will probably stay married.
Does that mean they're successful because they're stayed together and not cheated? (as far as I know lol). To some, maybe. To others, success would mean more than that, it would mean consistent great sex or emotional fulfillment, motivating and inspiring one another, etc., it depends on how you define success I guess.
Reptar
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PantyWhisperer
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Why thank you. I chose it myself.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.