"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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**** it! Just **** it!

pooparu

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Well, its been a while again, been through alot of ****, ups and downs, goods and bads. And I've made a decision today.

**** it.

Two words, which such huge meaning, at least to me. I don't intend to write a monologue, because honestly, **** you.

Don't take me for a dirtbag or *******, for ranting and raving or seeking the validation from this forum (all of us have been doing it), but felt I had to get it out there somehow, deal with it or **** you.

I don't mean **** you in the conventional sense either, I don't know any of you, so I dont care to insult your personalities. But I've been wasting alot of time. Caring too much. Not about women, not about people. But about my own ****ing frail ego. "Why is she talking to someone else?" "Why did I just get AMOGed?" "Why didn't I **** her".

**** IT ALL. Its time to live for one man alone now, and stop caring about the social proof, the thoughts, the everything. To stop caring what other guys would rate a *****, or how many guys have tried to get with her, **** IT ALL. When I hit up school or work, or the store, wherever, its time to just say **** it. If I think a ***** looks good she's gonna find out, if I want to **** her she's gonna find out. Her friends are going to find out, and if I wanna **** them too they are gonna find out. **** what people think of me, I'm out there for me, either I wanna get my rocks off or maybe I want a companion, but whatever I want, **** everyone else.

Its time to live for one man now, thanks for all the help guys, I finally found my answer.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pakwah

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i remember a quote i heard from somewhere -

A real man knows what he wants, and takes it.
 

BlackJackal

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Hey man, ask for the moon and you'll be surprised how much it gets handed to ya.:up:
 
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