"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"It hurts"

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This is a girl with who we've had sex before no problems, yes, sometimes it hurts her since she apparently has a short vagina, but it's not like we had problems to *** in most cases. Last night she came to spend the night and I could feel that it hurt her. Today morning, same thing, she even said "it hurts" as I was approaching orgasm and my erection, mentally, was gone. She was soaking wet all of this time.

Like, I need to be able to ram a girl at some point.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is a girl with who we've had sex before no problems, yes, sometimes it hurts her since she apparently has a short vagina, but it's not like we had problems to *** in most cases. Last night she came to spend the night and I could feel that it hurt her. Today morning, same thing, she even said "it hurts" as I was approaching orgasm and my erection, mentally, was gone. She was soaking wet all of this time.

Like, I need to be able to ram a girl at some point.
Then talk to her and ask how you can make it less painful. She's a human being not a blow up doll, I'm sure conversation is possible here.

If it's too much of an issue don't waste time being frustrated, find someone with a deep vagina to ram.
 

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Then talk to her and ask how you can make it less painful. She's a human being not a blow up doll, I'm sure conversation is possible here.

If it's too much of an issue don't waste time being frustrated, find someone with a deep vagina to ram.
There is no big deal in making it less painful, I can just go easier, but the fact she says it turned me off this time.
 

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Funny, I get super turned on when a girl tells me it hurts. Actually I feel a bit inadequate when she appears to handle it too easily. Lol
 

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There is no big deal in making it less painful, I can just go easier, but the fact she says it turned me off this time.
If it's me I'd just ram on until I *** and afterwards she can just tell me all abt how my d1ck hurt her pvssy...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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my Finnish wife could not take me fully, vaginaly or oraly... it was a big part of our breakup
 

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This is a girl with who we've had sex before no problems, yes, sometimes it hurts her since she apparently has a short vagina, but it's not like we had problems to *** in most cases. Last night she came to spend the night and I could feel that it hurt her. Today morning, same thing, she even said "it hurts" as I was approaching orgasm and my erection, mentally, was gone. She was soaking wet all of this time.

Like, I need to be able to ram a girl at some point.
If she's got a short barrel you need to hold back. Cervix hits hurt like getting kicked In the balls on many females . Meaning they'll lose their drive instantly and dry up .

She's probably sore 2-3 days after sex .

They make a "donut" spacer to slip over your c0ck to take 1" away.
 

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i get annoyed by chicks that say "u do it wrong" "u do dat wrong" "cant do it properly?" nah bae
Those are female NEG hits . Designed to strip your confidence and give her control. They'll also attack your c0ck. In 2018 the man bashing is true psychological warfare.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Funny, I get super turned on when a girl tells me it hurts. Actually I feel a bit inadequate when she appears to handle it too easily. Lol
Sex is supposed to feel good. The downside of hurt is she will lose her desire for sex.

So it's good for her to know you have enough tool to "hurt" but you need to stay 1mm away from hurting her.

If she equate sex to pain you won't get none .
 
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Sex is supposed to feel good. The downside of hurt is she will lose her desire for sex.

So it's good for her to know you have enough tool to "hurt" but you need to stay 1mm away from hurting her.

If she equate sex to pain you won't get none .
Yes. Like hello guys you're not on the receiving end of a penis so you don't know what it's like if it hurts.

For those of you complaining that her being in pain kills your mood Imagine if she wanted to stuff a dildo up your butt and got all huffy because you complained that it hurt. Would you want to continue with her?

Try being a bit more considerate. If sex is only about your pleasure and not hers you will totally suck in bed and she will just go find a guy who isn't that selfish.
 

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Yes. Like hello guys you're not on the receiving end of a penis so you don't know what it's like if it hurts.

For those of you complaining that her being in pain kills your mood Imagine if she wanted to stuff a dildo up your butt and got all huffy because you complained that it hurt. Would you want to continue with her?

Try being a bit more considerate. If sex is only about your pleasure and not hers you will totally suck in bed and she will just go find a guy who isn't that selfish.
Chill out, woman. Sex is pleasing to her and she came twice before we even started sex. Just wanted to talk this over with the guys, see what they have to say. Maybe it's even a rant.
 

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This thread has made me want sex with someone new. It's true when a girl handles it too well you do feel inadequate, just enjoy it because soon it will be a girl backing away saying "ouch" or "not so rough" when you're not even doing anything.

The thing is, these girls are getting rammed by some dude, I would rather be that dude. I would rather a girl say, "he fvcked me good and made me sore with his big d1ck" than "wow he was so gentle and tame, I nearly fell asleep". You can't have it all, girls.
 

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Yes. Like hello guys you're not on the receiving end of a penis so you don't know what it's like if it hurts.

For those of you complaining that her being in pain kills your mood Imagine if she wanted to stuff a dildo up your butt and got all huffy because you complained that it hurt. Would you want to continue with her?

Try being a bit more considerate. If sex is only about your pleasure and not hers you will totally suck in bed and she will just go find a guy who isn't that selfish.
Right! That long and fat dildo stuffed into your rear as your hamnering away. And your dyck starts losing it's erection . And as your complaining she starts banging the dildo harder and harder, trying to force the last 2" in. You completely lose your erection and just want the dildo OUT. Actually your mood killed from her being an azzhole, so now you want to be left alone .
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This thread has made me want sex with someone new. It's true when a girl handles it too well you do feel inadequate, just enjoy it because soon it will be a girl backing away saying "ouch" or "not so rough" when you're not even doing anything.

The thing is, these girls are getting rammed by some dude, I would rather be that dude. I would rather a girl say, "he fvcked me good and made me sore with his big d1ck" than "wow he was so gentle and tame, I nearly fell asleep". You can't have it all, girls.
Yeah but if your effectively kicking her in the nuts, then you need to chill. Yes a good sex workout leads to the vagina feeling "worked" days later, but it shouldn't be excruciating pain . Who the eff wants that? It's a fine line between a good "workout" and "torture".
 

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Yeah but if your effectively kicking her in the nuts, then you need to chill. Yes a good sex workout leads to the vagina feeling "worked" days later, but it shouldn't be excruciating pain . Who the eff wants that? It's a fine line between a good "workout" and "torture".
Yeah I'm not talking about ramming, I don't want to cause anyone pain and like most people I find it a turn off.
 
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