"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It happens when you least expect

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So went into a restaurant to pickup some food today not even thinking about DJ'ing. Just waiting to get home to slam some beers beers on a Friday night. So a hot chic is in there giving peoples takeout orders. I didn't even brush my hair or dress good. I just BS'd with her about something, next thing you know we grew up in the same area and have tons in common. She even started on about some party but I just got her # and left after 10 minutes of talking.

So after all my effort in looking good and game I get a sweet girls # basically being AFC.
Funny how things work sometimes eh?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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good job man..but afc is all about how you act and not how you look ;)
 
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Maybe I used the wrong term "AFC". All I meant is I went in to the store, I was not thinking or caring about being a DJ, not even thinking about girls (even though I need to get laid bad and I have been terrible in attracting women lately).

BUT I left the store with a # and a hope that I met someone. She seems great and it is a complete shock because after my hard work i came up empty, but when I wasn't even working I came up good.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
I was not thinking or caring about being a DJ, not even thinking about girls
This is actually the correct way to behave as a DJ, in my opinion. When you dont care anymore, girls appear. When you are eager or trying, the girls sense it .

It seems the less interested I become in women, the more keep turning up.
 
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Dongfu said:
This is actually the correct way to behave as a DJ, in my opinion. When you dont care anymore, girls appear. When you are eager or trying, the girls sense it .

It seems the less interested I become in women, the more keep turning up.

This is a great point. I have been seeing one other girl that is why I am not acting eager. She keeps me happy on the side but she is not the one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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