Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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It happens when you least expect

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So went into a restaurant to pickup some food today not even thinking about DJ'ing. Just waiting to get home to slam some beers beers on a Friday night. So a hot chic is in there giving peoples takeout orders. I didn't even brush my hair or dress good. I just BS'd with her about something, next thing you know we grew up in the same area and have tons in common. She even started on about some party but I just got her # and left after 10 minutes of talking.

So after all my effort in looking good and game I get a sweet girls # basically being AFC.
Funny how things work sometimes eh?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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good job man..but afc is all about how you act and not how you look ;)
 
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Maybe I used the wrong term "AFC". All I meant is I went in to the store, I was not thinking or caring about being a DJ, not even thinking about girls (even though I need to get laid bad and I have been terrible in attracting women lately).

BUT I left the store with a # and a hope that I met someone. She seems great and it is a complete shock because after my hard work i came up empty, but when I wasn't even working I came up good.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
I was not thinking or caring about being a DJ, not even thinking about girls
This is actually the correct way to behave as a DJ, in my opinion. When you dont care anymore, girls appear. When you are eager or trying, the girls sense it .

It seems the less interested I become in women, the more keep turning up.
 
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Dongfu said:
This is actually the correct way to behave as a DJ, in my opinion. When you dont care anymore, girls appear. When you are eager or trying, the girls sense it .

It seems the less interested I become in women, the more keep turning up.

This is a great point. I have been seeing one other girl that is why I am not acting eager. She keeps me happy on the side but she is not the one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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