"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It goes well but then...

DmanD

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I need some advice here...
I attract really cool and hot chicks and they usually give off good vibes and enjoy every moment with me. However, at some stage they just kind of lose thier interest and not show their interest (laughing, kinoing back, etc). Even when i initiate stuff. I keep my cool and dont let it affect it, but the problem that it happened couple times already.

The problem is that I dont know whether i should initiate more or just let it go. I dont really want to be the one initiating conversations and organizing stuff all the time. With couple girls I suspect that it might be that they dont get enough attention (esp. in school) from me so they just give up. But i dont think that i should ditch my friends and talk to them all the time.

I would like you hear your thoughts on the matter.
Thanks,
DmanD
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DmanD said:
I need some advice here...
I attract really cool and hot chicks and they usually give off good vibes and enjoy every moment with me. However, at some stage they just kind of lose thier interest and not show their interest (laughing, kinoing back, etc). Even when i initiate stuff. I keep my cool and dont let it affect it, but the problem that it happened couple times already.

The problem is that I dont know whether i should initiate more or just let it go.
you definitely SHOULD initiate kino. but not necessarily conversation (in texts or over the phone). saying hey at school is no biggie you can do that. it sounds like you're getting ljbf'd to be honest with you. i'm thinkin more kino, earlier on in the interaction.
 
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