Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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It goes well but then...

DmanD

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I need some advice here...
I attract really cool and hot chicks and they usually give off good vibes and enjoy every moment with me. However, at some stage they just kind of lose thier interest and not show their interest (laughing, kinoing back, etc). Even when i initiate stuff. I keep my cool and dont let it affect it, but the problem that it happened couple times already.

The problem is that I dont know whether i should initiate more or just let it go. I dont really want to be the one initiating conversations and organizing stuff all the time. With couple girls I suspect that it might be that they dont get enough attention (esp. in school) from me so they just give up. But i dont think that i should ditch my friends and talk to them all the time.

I would like you hear your thoughts on the matter.
Thanks,
DmanD
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DmanD said:
I need some advice here...
I attract really cool and hot chicks and they usually give off good vibes and enjoy every moment with me. However, at some stage they just kind of lose thier interest and not show their interest (laughing, kinoing back, etc). Even when i initiate stuff. I keep my cool and dont let it affect it, but the problem that it happened couple times already.

The problem is that I dont know whether i should initiate more or just let it go.
you definitely SHOULD initiate kino. but not necessarily conversation (in texts or over the phone). saying hey at school is no biggie you can do that. it sounds like you're getting ljbf'd to be honest with you. i'm thinkin more kino, earlier on in the interaction.
 
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