"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It goes well but then...

DmanD

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I need some advice here...
I attract really cool and hot chicks and they usually give off good vibes and enjoy every moment with me. However, at some stage they just kind of lose thier interest and not show their interest (laughing, kinoing back, etc). Even when i initiate stuff. I keep my cool and dont let it affect it, but the problem that it happened couple times already.

The problem is that I dont know whether i should initiate more or just let it go. I dont really want to be the one initiating conversations and organizing stuff all the time. With couple girls I suspect that it might be that they dont get enough attention (esp. in school) from me so they just give up. But i dont think that i should ditch my friends and talk to them all the time.

I would like you hear your thoughts on the matter.
Thanks,
DmanD
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DmanD said:
I need some advice here...
I attract really cool and hot chicks and they usually give off good vibes and enjoy every moment with me. However, at some stage they just kind of lose thier interest and not show their interest (laughing, kinoing back, etc). Even when i initiate stuff. I keep my cool and dont let it affect it, but the problem that it happened couple times already.

The problem is that I dont know whether i should initiate more or just let it go.
you definitely SHOULD initiate kino. but not necessarily conversation (in texts or over the phone). saying hey at school is no biggie you can do that. it sounds like you're getting ljbf'd to be honest with you. i'm thinkin more kino, earlier on in the interaction.
 
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