"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It does NOT help you improve YOURSELF to whine about girls
- Thread starter Wyldfire
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Generalizations based on specific criteria are very valid. You're acting like people here contantly judge ALL the women in the world. This is not true, not even remotely. What I see here are generalizations of certain types of women based on particular types of behvaiour patterns. These do tend to be quite accurate, as many people in different situations can attest to the similarities they have encountered. Since we as men have more experience dealing with women on the romantic level, we have a much more broad experience than you would and would be able to see why some of these geenralizations are valid.
In short, you're over reacting. You're blowing a small problem into a bigger one.
TDOT
Don Juan
DJs don't care, they next.
Wow thats pretty good, don't you agree? In fact I'll make that my new quote in my signature!
Sidenote: Yes I realize that I just complimented myself. It is OK for a DJ to do that.
OK I'm going off on a tangent here sorry.
Attention wh0res tend to compliment themselves.
I also figured out why many of them are bisexual, its because they want to get as much attention as possible. If they can't get it from guys then they go to girls. Interesting though that they are still not real friends with their lesbians partners.
Anyway never let any woman compliment herself in front of you.
Any woman that does that shows that she has low self esteem and respect for herself.
Its OK for you to do it though. The more the DJ compliments himself in front of a woman he is training her to give him compliments. After complimenting yourself say: "don't you agree?"
Your post is a valid post and I respect what you've said here. You shouldn't try to answer word for word or go toe to toe with these guys.
Just say what you have to say and leave it alone. This site has a reputation for it's incredible 3 day debates and flame wars.
Telling me not to go "toe to toe" with anyone who gets snarky with me is like telling a leopard not to have spots. I was a competitive debater and public speaker in school. I aced an argumentative writing course I took with little effort. It comes to me naturally and is in my blood. Eventually those who try to provoke me will figure out it's an act of futility to do so.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.