Much better...IF you actually mean that and aren't just giving a one line answer as a form of surrender.Originally posted by tmpgstx
Thanks .. i'll keep that in mind
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Much better...IF you actually mean that and aren't just giving a one line answer as a form of surrender.Originally posted by tmpgstx
Thanks .. i'll keep that in mind
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Generalizations based on specific criteria are very valid. You're acting like people here contantly judge ALL the women in the world. This is not true, not even remotely. What I see here are generalizations of certain types of women based on particular types of behvaiour patterns. These do tend to be quite accurate, as many people in different situations can attest to the similarities they have encountered. Since we as men have more experience dealing with women on the romantic level, we have a much more broad experience than you would and would be able to see why some of these geenralizations are valid.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Again...the girl/girls discussed on this site are irrelevent. And if a guy focuses on himself as he SHOULD be then he will mature, grow and will simply NOT be interested in women who aren't worth his time. Anyone who has to include some generalized negative and bitter comment blaming girls for all the woes of men is NEVER going to succeed with women because his focus is on the wrong thing. Period.
Telling me not to go "toe to toe" with anyone who gets snarky with me is like telling a leopard not to have spots. I was a competitive debater and public speaker in school. I aced an argumentative writing course I took with little effort. It comes to me naturally and is in my blood. Eventually those who try to provoke me will figure out it's an act of futility to do so.Originally posted by MrHarris
Wyldfire:
Your post is a valid post and I respect what you've said here. You shouldn't try to answer word for word or go toe to toe with these guys.
Just say what you have to say and leave it alone. This site has a reputation for it's incredible 3 day debates and flame wars.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.