"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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**** it all

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wyldfire

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Why are you giving someone else the power to either make you happy or make you unhappy? How pleased you are or are not with your life is entirely YOUR responsibility and choice. The second you place that responsibility onto a member of the opposite sex you're setting yourself up for disppointment.
 

Triple X

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Hahahaha....

I feel like that sometimes too.

Well said.
 

chopper1911

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damn what happened? cant say I havent felt those sentiments exactly though. If ya angry be angry and let it out especially someplace like here.
 

TooColdUlrick

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Originally posted by DonEdwardo
And **** her as well,

That about covers it all,

goodnight
said that many times myself, haha. it's healthy sometimes...gives you a new perspective. just laugh about it and don't let it drag you down.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thesynergist

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He he...that's a hell of a lot better attitude than:

What went wrong? Should I buy her flowers? Maybe attatch a poem?

What did she mean when she said (insert ambiguous ******** statement here)?
 

DonEdwardo

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Lol, thanks guys,

Hows that for a post from the past coming up to haunt me!

Well the good news is, I'm feeling alot better now, I just really need to get out of the small town I'm in, it's really giving me the attitude that women are a scarce resource, when in reality they are not!!

Still feel the same, but the f**k can be interpreted in a different manner now,

Cheers,
DonEdwardo
 
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