"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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**** it all

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wyldfire

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Why are you giving someone else the power to either make you happy or make you unhappy? How pleased you are or are not with your life is entirely YOUR responsibility and choice. The second you place that responsibility onto a member of the opposite sex you're setting yourself up for disppointment.
 

Triple X

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Hahahaha....

I feel like that sometimes too.

Well said.
 

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damn what happened? cant say I havent felt those sentiments exactly though. If ya angry be angry and let it out especially someplace like here.
 

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Originally posted by DonEdwardo
And **** her as well,

That about covers it all,

goodnight
said that many times myself, haha. it's healthy sometimes...gives you a new perspective. just laugh about it and don't let it drag you down.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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He he...that's a hell of a lot better attitude than:

What went wrong? Should I buy her flowers? Maybe attatch a poem?

What did she mean when she said (insert ambiguous ******** statement here)?
 

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Lol, thanks guys,

Hows that for a post from the past coming up to haunt me!

Well the good news is, I'm feeling alot better now, I just really need to get out of the small town I'm in, it's really giving me the attitude that women are a scarce resource, when in reality they are not!!

Still feel the same, but the f**k can be interpreted in a different manner now,

Cheers,
DonEdwardo
 
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