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Not only is libido lower but when on top form SMV 18-23, women are going nuts and getting banged out. When they get older, iys old hat and she's lost it.
x2. I believe within the last 10-15 years, high smv girls have been banged out so many times, that they really don't have that part of it to look forward to anymore by the time they reach their 30's and maybe they don't even get excited by that fact. The only thing that keeps them somewhat active is their biology but not as much psychologically in terms of craving sex when they get older.
At the same time, guys that's either fapped too much to porn or Chads that slayed when they're younger may have a hard time being sexually satisfied later in life too or have a harder time keeping an erection going with the same girl in a LTR.
 

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Some women want ALL cylinders firing in their relationship. And they truly believe they will be able to find that in one individual.
This is the reason why I advocate for not only to screen but to test early on how they deal with sub-optimal or bad situations and see if she can pass those and still be willing to stick with you.

Tests can range anywhere from job loss/layoff(real or faked), death of a family, personal depression for whatever reasons(how supportive she is), traveling for work and being gone for lengths of time(can she wait or will she cheat), family drama(how does she cope), taking an international trip(how does she cope with any snags on the trip), car breaking down in the middle of nowhere(real or fake), etc...
 

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x2. I believe within the last 10-15 years, high smv girls have been banged out so many times, that they really don't have that part of it to look forward to anymore by the time they reach their 30's and maybe they don't even get excited by that fact.
42% of births today are out of wedlock. Let that sink...

+30 women are looking for Beta Cucks
 

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This is the reason why I advocate for not only to screen but to test early on how they deal with sub-optimal or bad situations and see if she can pass those and still be willing to stick with you.
I'll save everyone the time, SHE WON'T :lol:
 

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This is the reason why I advocate for not only to screen but to test early on how they deal with sub-optimal or bad situations and see if she can pass those and still be willing to stick with you.
How do you go about giving tests in early stage of seeing someone - say under 3 months?
 

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How do you go about giving tests in early stage of seeing someone - say under 3 months?
Anything that causes issues, stress, tension, inconvenience, etc.

For 3 months, you can't expect the big stuff but stuff like:
  • Her picking up something for you at a store that's closer to her
  • Telling her your car broke down and see if she's willing to pick you up or drive you around a few times
  • Not being able to see her on her schedule because your mom is sick and see how she reacts to it(supportive and willing to wait, or she moves on or starts talking to other guys)
  • Tell her someone was fraudently using your credit card and they put a hold on it. See if she's more pissed that you can't pay for her or take her out or if she's more sympathetic to your situation
  • etc. There are many ways you can put a girl in a situation to see how she reacts to it. Basically shyt testing a girl early on so that you know where she stands with you. It's kinda of sad but these are things we must do to avoid the sting later.
Just be careful as there is a difference between situations that pop up and having a loser mentality about it too. No one wants to be around losers.
 

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My ex sister in law divorced my brother after 5 years of marriage. About 13 years AFTER the divorce, she called me to offer condolences for my Grandmother passing away. Keep in mind I had not heard from her for 13 years, so naturally I am thinking "this isn't for MY benefit, it is for her benefit. We chatted for 20 min, during the course of the convo, I ask if she is married and kids.

NOPE. Never married again, no kids. Then she starts to tell me how she regrets the divorce, how it was all her fault, and how she thought the grass would be greener. How she fvcked up. A few minutes later she asks for my brother's number "to offer condolences". I give it, and end the call.

I don't believe she wanted to offer condolences - I believe she wanted to get my brother's number and see if he was single, to maybe get another shot. I imagine she was disappointed to find out he had been happily married for 12 years at that point.

I think you are giving this woman too much credit.
Maybe I am.

I don’t have any doubts that women always think they can or do deserve better than what they have. Even when women get in groups they compare what their partners are up to or where they’re headed to for vacation. That right there is signalling who has the best in the group, at that time. And surely women compare that with their own situation. Women talk amongst all their their social circles - family, friend, work, etc. So they are always ‘looking in to’ how that male is impacting their life.

As a man he has to constantly be climbing upwards. Always passionate. This has been my personal experience. And if you’re not? Things will start to get dicey fast. Women want it all, and when they want it. It can certainly be tiring, and they will find every way to keep you on your toes so you don’t slack.
I don’t know if I’ve always been with more narcissistic type women that that’s been the case though?
I’m single as of 1 month ago. I can’t imagine getting in to another serious LTR until minimum 1 year.
 

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Anything that causes issues, stress, tension, inconvenience, etc.

For 3 months, you can't expect the big stuff but stuff like:
  • Her picking up something for you at a store that's closer to her
  • Telling her your car broke down and see if she's willing to pick you up or drive you around a few times
  • Not being able to see her on her schedule because your mom is sick and see how she reacts to it(supportive and willing to wait, or she moves on or starts talking to other guys)
  • Tell her someone was fraudently using your credit card and they put a hold on it. See if she's more pissed that you can't pay for her or take her out or if she's more sympathetic to your situation
  • etc. There are many ways you can put a girl in a situation to see how she reacts to it. Basically shyt testing a girl early on so that you know where she stands with you. It's kinda of sad but these are things we must do to avoid the sting later.
Just be careful as there is a difference between situations that pop up and having a loser mentality about it too. No one wants to be around losers.
I'd be weary of lying, if you get caught that just makes you... well... a liar.

Maybe instead take advantage of life's curveballs to test her with. So the situations are real and you can test her at the same time?
 

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I'd be weary of lying, if you get caught that just makes you... well... a liar.

Maybe instead take advantage of life's curveballs to test her with. So the situations are real and you can test her at the same time?
Why? Women do that all the time or manipulate and shyt tests you. It's all fair in love and war as they say. Just don't be sloppy and get caught. What she doesn't know won't hurt her but it can help you in the long run.

Would you rather find out a year into your relationship that she doesn't have your back or within a few months?

Life's curveballs don't always happen when you want them to. So that isn't very ideal or realistic IMO.

But ultimately you gotta do what you're comfortable with.
 

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x2. I believe within the last 10-15 years, high smv girls have been banged out so many times, that they really don't have that part of it to look forward to anymore by the time they reach their 30's and maybe they don't even get excited by that fact. The only thing that keeps them somewhat active is their biology but not as much psychologically in terms of craving sex when they get older.
At the same time, guys that's either fapped too much to porn or Chads that slayed when they're younger may have a hard time being sexually satisfied later in life too or have a harder time keeping an erection going with the same girl in a LTR.
I agree. Enough pickup makes you black pill. I cannot stress enough about meditation. Its trench warfare out there. I am not exactly sure about guys and too much sex. I think my opinion on women has gone down the toilet since learning cold approach pickup and game. The same thing again and again. Push, pull. The hamster wheel of the female brain revs up. Recognition of a IOIs/choosing signals, eye ****ing is fully IDENTICAL EVERYTIME. It is bambii eye's and that inquisitive attention you command.

Its astonishing to see fully grown women behaving and reciprocating like its still high school. Delusional as ****kkk. Its sad actually. Pathetic even. 30+ woman cannot contain playboys attention. She actually is incapable of comprehending why.

The biggest game changer being, hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day. #nextSet #micdrop
 

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Push, pull. The hamster wheel of the female brain revs up. Recognition of a IOIs/choosing signals, eye ****ing is fully IDENTICAL EVERYTIME. It is bambii eye's and that inquisitive attention you command.

Its astonishing to see fully grown women behaving and reciprocating like its still high school.
Are you saying here that your cold approach game is A1? Like, women fall for it predictably every time? As in, they are all the same and resort to their animalistic nature of hypergamy. They follow the hypergamous script so exact that they drip and ooze of it?

Just clarifying.
 

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Are you saying here that your cold approach game is A1? Like, women fall for it predictably every time? As in, they are all the same and resort to their animalistic nature of hypergamy. They follow the hypergamous script so exact that they drip and ooze of it?

Just clarifying.
Pure greed. I have a relative with the cheating wives script. He knows what they want to hear and thru a series of conversations can get them to cheating.

He said that the most common trait is that they are all ungrateful.
 
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Pure greed. I have a relative with the cheating wives script. He knows what they want to hear and thru a series of conversations can get them to cheating.

He said that the most common trait is that they are all ungrateful.
conversation is the great equalizer. if she is talking consistently with another man, that's trouble.

Does the relative tell them to keep quiet about the talking so as to not alert the husband, or just don't care and assumes he can deal with whatever comes along?
 

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Women cheat because they have no more use for the man. It doesn’t mean they are scum, it means they are practical, alot more practical than men when it comes to romantic relationships.

Once a man commits and the women has no more use for him, the red flags, abuse, and cheating will show up. Why? Because the man cant go anywhere without financial penalties. So she keep hammering until he applies for divorce or dies. Makes her look fantastic in the eyes of society.

Woman are manipulative to the core. They can’t afford to be honest as it’s not their best interest. Only smart men know this. Beta males want love and devotion and affection.

Wake up men.
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conversation is the great equalizer. if she is talking consistently with another man, that's trouble.

Does the relative tell them to keep quiet about the talking so as to not alert the husband, or just don't care and assumes he can deal with whatever comes along?
I don't know. I dont like it. In the scenarios he's not a physical Alpha. The husband usually is. She cheats on him to whip him. Like a bad kid being naughty and disobeying dad. I don't know what he tells them. I just know they think it's fun.
 

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conversation is the great equalizer. if she is talking consistently with another man, that's trouble.

Does the relative tell them to keep quiet about the talking so as to not alert the husband, or just don't care and assumes he can deal with whatever comes along?
My relative gave me the scoop. He said they are stupid. It's as simple as isolating them for some coffee or ice cream. He's never been on a dating site, but from the horses mouth he said "women are highly emotional". Then he used the line from Jack Nicholas in the movie "A few good men" " I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability. " My relative also added "common sense". He said that there wasn't any one particular line that they use, simply getting them isolated ( which they shouldn't do ) that the woman will let him know it's cool. They don't talk about the husband unless the woman brings it up. They know that the more that these wives complain, the closer to him that they will grow. So they encourage them to talk.
 

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Are you saying here that your cold approach game is A1? Like, women fall for it predictably every time? As in, they are all the same and resort to their animalistic nature of hypergamy. They follow the hypergamous script so exact that they drip and ooze of it?

Just clarifying.
I am saying, after endless cold approach pickup, the routine pattern is tell tale. I see high interest. Dtf. I lead. She follows or next. Repeat till d falls off or dead.

No ambiguity. No fence sitters. COMPLIANCE is king. If she's flakey or hot and cold, you #nextSet and get more girls. I don't chase. I replace.

Again, no free attention. My D won't suck it self. I approach. She is either with the program or not. As a man, you must CALL. Play your hand. 1sec left in the game. You have the ball. What do you do?

No hesitation. I alway shoot.
 
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