"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It’s the best thing that ever happened to you.

CGE333

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It’s the best thing that ever happened to you.

This has been my new outlook on everything in life and it has served me well. No matter what happens to you just decide that it is the best thing that ever happened to you. For example, your one itis dumps you- best thing that ever happened to you. It gives you the opportunity for personal growth and to find someone better suited for you. You lose your job-best thing that ever happened to you. It gives you the opportunity to get a better one. You make an approach and regardless of the outcome- best thing that ever happened to you. Either you got the #, or you got rejected in which case you gained valuable experience and you can cross that one of the 3 billion females on the planet off of your list. So remember no matter what happens:

It’s the best thing that ever happened to you.


A month ago I was explaining this philosophy to a friend of mine and she agreed that it was a great idea and that she was going to start to use it. While I was still on the phone with her, her dog to a crap on the carpet of her house. She started complaining until I reminded her that it was the best thing that ever happened to her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by CGE333
It’s the best thing that ever happened to you.

This has been my new outlook on everything in life and it has served me well. No matter what happens to you just decide that it is the best thing that ever happened to you. For example, your one itis dumps you- best thing that ever happened to you. It gives you the opportunity for personal growth and to find someone better suited for you. You lose your job-best thing that ever happened to you. It gives you the opportunity to get a better one. You make an approach and regardless of the outcome- best thing that ever happened to you. Either you got the #, or you got rejected in which case you gained valuable experience and you can cross that one of the 3 billion females on the planet off of your list. So remember no matter what happens:

It’s the best thing that ever happened to you.


A month ago I was explaining this philosophy to a friend of mine and she agreed that it was a great idea and that she was going to start to use it. While I was still on the phone with her, her dog to a crap on the carpet of her house. She started complaining until I reminded her that it was the best thing that ever happened to her.

hmm i like this way of thinking
 

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I just lost my left arm in an automobile accident -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!

Last week I was convicted of a 1st degree murder I didn't commit -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!

I just found out the water heater in my basement exploded and killed my entire family -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!


holy sh*t, this really works.
 

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I prefer "it's for the best" but same principle so meh.
 

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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
I just lost my left arm in an automobile accident -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!

Last week I was convicted of a 1st degree murder I didn't commit -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!

I just found out the water heater in my basement exploded and killed my entire family -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!


holy sh*t, this really works.
:crackup: :crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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