"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It’s the best thing that ever happened to you.

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It’s the best thing that ever happened to you.

This has been my new outlook on everything in life and it has served me well. No matter what happens to you just decide that it is the best thing that ever happened to you. For example, your one itis dumps you- best thing that ever happened to you. It gives you the opportunity for personal growth and to find someone better suited for you. You lose your job-best thing that ever happened to you. It gives you the opportunity to get a better one. You make an approach and regardless of the outcome- best thing that ever happened to you. Either you got the #, or you got rejected in which case you gained valuable experience and you can cross that one of the 3 billion females on the planet off of your list. So remember no matter what happens:

It’s the best thing that ever happened to you.


A month ago I was explaining this philosophy to a friend of mine and she agreed that it was a great idea and that she was going to start to use it. While I was still on the phone with her, her dog to a crap on the carpet of her house. She started complaining until I reminded her that it was the best thing that ever happened to her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by CGE333
It’s the best thing that ever happened to you.

This has been my new outlook on everything in life and it has served me well. No matter what happens to you just decide that it is the best thing that ever happened to you. For example, your one itis dumps you- best thing that ever happened to you. It gives you the opportunity for personal growth and to find someone better suited for you. You lose your job-best thing that ever happened to you. It gives you the opportunity to get a better one. You make an approach and regardless of the outcome- best thing that ever happened to you. Either you got the #, or you got rejected in which case you gained valuable experience and you can cross that one of the 3 billion females on the planet off of your list. So remember no matter what happens:

It’s the best thing that ever happened to you.


A month ago I was explaining this philosophy to a friend of mine and she agreed that it was a great idea and that she was going to start to use it. While I was still on the phone with her, her dog to a crap on the carpet of her house. She started complaining until I reminded her that it was the best thing that ever happened to her.
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hmm i like this way of thinking
 
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I just lost my left arm in an automobile accident -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!

Last week I was convicted of a 1st degree murder I didn't commit -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!

I just found out the water heater in my basement exploded and killed my entire family -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!


holy sh*t, this really works.
 
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I prefer "it's for the best" but same principle so meh.
 
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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
I just lost my left arm in an automobile accident -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!

Last week I was convicted of a 1st degree murder I didn't commit -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!

I just found out the water heater in my basement exploded and killed my entire family -- it's the best thing that ever happened to me!


holy sh*t, this really works.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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