"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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playerone

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You find that her interest level is getting on the downside.

What do you do, generally. I want to implement a rule to stick to, and maybe tattoo it on my penis to make sure i remember it, not getting caught up in the mind whenever it happens.

Shoot.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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C'mon dude, this stuff has been written on here about 1,000,000 times. I generally don't suffer low interest levels because I have too much on my plate, so I only see some of my girls every week or two (and one I haven't seen for 6 weeks, despite her hassling me).

Normally THEY get fed up of MY interest level dropping, so they try to next me, but always come back.

Anyway, enough of my trumpet blowing.

Why has her interest level dropped? ('I don't know' will NOT suffice)

What happens when you ask her out? (she makes up an excuse??)

How often does she blow you out?

Are there genuinely mitigating circumstances? (i.e. her dad is dying)
 
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