"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You find that her interest level is getting on the downside.

What do you do, generally. I want to implement a rule to stick to, and maybe tattoo it on my penis to make sure i remember it, not getting caught up in the mind whenever it happens.

Shoot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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C'mon dude, this stuff has been written on here about 1,000,000 times. I generally don't suffer low interest levels because I have too much on my plate, so I only see some of my girls every week or two (and one I haven't seen for 6 weeks, despite her hassling me).

Normally THEY get fed up of MY interest level dropping, so they try to next me, but always come back.

Anyway, enough of my trumpet blowing.

Why has her interest level dropped? ('I don't know' will NOT suffice)

What happens when you ask her out? (she makes up an excuse??)

How often does she blow you out?

Are there genuinely mitigating circumstances? (i.e. her dad is dying)
 
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