"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Issue with married woman

Dash Riprock

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She internalizes that her husband is doing things wrong so it gives her a psychological reason to justify the cheating.
This is so true even in LTRs. These woman are BAD NEWS. Most are quite damaged beyond repair and demonstrate Cluster B tendencies, which in my 10-cent dime store shrink opinion, she probably has.

Lie, cheat, and branch swing. It's all SO MUCH easier than actually being an adult and facing your problems, and dare I say, trying to actually work them out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Spaz, happened to me in my early 20's. My entire life was rocked. It was the worst pain I've ever felt but I will never forget how exciting life became once I started rebuilding and changing who I was!!! I feel horrible for the guys that never recover or even make an effort to rebuild and mold your new self.

I also agree with your stance on Married women. I've made this mistake and it almost blew up bad on me. When this girl got caught i had to hear he left the house with a gun and is going to kill himself. Probably one of the worst feelings you can have. Thinking omg If this guy kills himself I am to blame... even worse imagine how it would feel if you open the paper and see a murder suicide with him and his family. I made a mistake and thankfully everyone is ok and I'm out of that mess.
 

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Yeah, taken woman is a big no-go.

Once they have divorced that's fair play but I ain't going after divorced chicks - too much baggage 4 my taste.

I had 2 short term young girlfriends that neglected to inform me that they r divorced/ separated with a child or 2 and their EX still trying to get them back.

I dismissed those 2...

When I look back, only the s€x was good whilst everything about them was off. Drinking way too much, stories that doesn't add up, partying too much, heck all those crazy stuff I was doing they enjoyed it tremendously - it turned me off.
 
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