"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Issue with EX gf...

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lal4l

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So I did the 60 days no contact. My GF at the time and I had been fighting a lot, not seeing eye to eye... Anyways after those 60 days she sends me a text telling me sorry for what she has done etc. How she loves me and if I ever put down my pride, to call her that she would marry me etc. I meet up with her for a drink just to see her and see how she is doing...

I dont want her back but will always love her, no matter what I think about her a lot but know she makes me absolutely miserable and cant give me what I want... This is crazy!
So I have a few drinks and this girl is real difficult as in she is not a slut, barely has slept with guys.

I ask her if shes been with anyone, FULLY expecting a NO... She paused and I prowed it out of her. She said yes. I was shocked my heart dropped. She said she did it to get over me and to fill the whole blah blah... She would never talk to him again... Anyways...

I am pretty sure today I am going to tell her that just isnt the one for me and unable to make me happy. That even if I wanted to I really cant see past another D*** in her... I have been with maybe 5 women since our split but of course I said no.

She wants to work it out, but we have gone down this path before and it is just unhealthy... I love the girl... But I need to contact for a year or something. I was so hurt by hearing she was with someone else, and bothered for a few days, but now I am doing ok and realizing that this is LIFE and it moves on.

Any other way to help me through all this and what should I do?

Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maximummax

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Simple Spin more plates
She is EX for a reason
Move on. You have oneitis about her.
 
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Johnnyventana

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Why pretend that you were a celibate 12 year old in her 60 day absence?

This 'sickness' you have felt since you heard she pounded a guy, should be her feeling she isn't good enough because you were off enjoying other, better, chicks.

Instead you look like you were pining for her forever. I don't get it.
 
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Don't be a CHUMP and take her back. Tell her you had fun being with her but, its time for me (you) to move on. CASE CLOSED.
 
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