Hey, my ex dumped me a month ago because I wasn't showing any "emotional affection" for her and she felt I was only w/ her for sex.
By the time I was able to appreciate her as a gf, it was too late and she ended it with me...and said she would never take me back.
At that point, we're stall talking as friends and then she gets back with her ex from 2 years ago. They go out for 2 weeks and she breaks up with him. While they were going out, I was interfering and she said he would get jealous because she still had feelings for me.
A week later, she starts showing feelings for me again, inviting me to places, and offering to bake me my favorite cookies, etc. But, I was over her for the most part so I brushed it off. She would call me and leave me sweet voice mails, and then I started liking her again and called her just as much. Then I began calling her more...1-2 times a day or talk to her on AIM.
She began giving me sexual signals...overboard sexual signals that she wanted to hookup and be **** buddies. She lead me on. We meet up one night and makeout, but she stops me and tells me she can't do it again. But I still keep calling her...we get into an argument about her leading me on and we haven't talked since.
(She's going through emotional issues right now because she has a hormone problem and recently found out she has to get her ovaries removed this summer - she's dealing with hard stuff so the leading me on part was a result of the hormone imbalance).
I felt bad, and after reflecting realized that the whole time she wanted me there to support her...she trusted me and I broke it by showing that I only wanted her for sex which was a misunderstanding. So I called her two days later and she didn't pickup...I called her later that day - she picked up and I apologized for pushing sex on her and told her I'd be there for her no matter what. She told me it meant a lot to her and that she'd call me back when she got home.
She never did...so the next day I called her cell - voicemail. I called her hours later and voicemail again.
I msg her best friend on AIM that night to ask where my ex is and she tells me to lay off calling her because its becoming "stalkerish"...she says I'm calling too much and its scaring my ex away. (this was wednesday)
Its now Friday and we haven't made any contact since.
I miss her and want to let her know that I'm sorry for everything and want things to be back to normal again...
But I'm afraid if I call her or e-mail her it won't give her space and make her hate me more...and think I'm even more stalkerish.
She hasn't been on AIM since Sunday...and she hasn't blocked me because I checked with another screen name. I don't know what's going on. I would think she would get over it by now.
I can't get over her...I've been trying to occupy my focus elsewhere and it keeps coming back to her. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
By the time I was able to appreciate her as a gf, it was too late and she ended it with me...and said she would never take me back.
At that point, we're stall talking as friends and then she gets back with her ex from 2 years ago. They go out for 2 weeks and she breaks up with him. While they were going out, I was interfering and she said he would get jealous because she still had feelings for me.
A week later, she starts showing feelings for me again, inviting me to places, and offering to bake me my favorite cookies, etc. But, I was over her for the most part so I brushed it off. She would call me and leave me sweet voice mails, and then I started liking her again and called her just as much. Then I began calling her more...1-2 times a day or talk to her on AIM.
She began giving me sexual signals...overboard sexual signals that she wanted to hookup and be **** buddies. She lead me on. We meet up one night and makeout, but she stops me and tells me she can't do it again. But I still keep calling her...we get into an argument about her leading me on and we haven't talked since.
(She's going through emotional issues right now because she has a hormone problem and recently found out she has to get her ovaries removed this summer - she's dealing with hard stuff so the leading me on part was a result of the hormone imbalance).
I felt bad, and after reflecting realized that the whole time she wanted me there to support her...she trusted me and I broke it by showing that I only wanted her for sex which was a misunderstanding. So I called her two days later and she didn't pickup...I called her later that day - she picked up and I apologized for pushing sex on her and told her I'd be there for her no matter what. She told me it meant a lot to her and that she'd call me back when she got home.
She never did...so the next day I called her cell - voicemail. I called her hours later and voicemail again.
I msg her best friend on AIM that night to ask where my ex is and she tells me to lay off calling her because its becoming "stalkerish"...she says I'm calling too much and its scaring my ex away. (this was wednesday)
Its now Friday and we haven't made any contact since.
I miss her and want to let her know that I'm sorry for everything and want things to be back to normal again...
But I'm afraid if I call her or e-mail her it won't give her space and make her hate me more...and think I'm even more stalkerish.
She hasn't been on AIM since Sunday...and she hasn't blocked me because I checked with another screen name. I don't know what's going on. I would think she would get over it by now.
I can't get over her...I've been trying to occupy my focus elsewhere and it keeps coming back to her. WHAT SHOULD I DO?