"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok I'm working on developing a phone app that will make sosuave more useful than ever before. You will be able to receive the best comebacks for questions that girls may ask. For example when you're in the middle of a convo and she says something but you dont know what is the best c&f answer, just type in her question and a sosuave member will respond within seconds. When you submit your question, the app automatically creates a thread without the need to log on to the sosuave website. So you can create threads and receive posts straight to your phone.
If you guys have any input on this I'd love to hear it!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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they already have this application, but the admin needs to install a plugin to have tha app connect to the vbulletin database.

However, you should be learning on your own, no? it's how we evolve. at least thats what I've been doing (sorta :p) I started off with questions, but lately I've been trying to post things after the fact, in hope that a member can point out what I could have done for future instances.
 

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umm this has been done few years back............girlfriendX a hand held electronic gadget, then ummm mystery and style gave you PU lines to use via text messages to your phone.
 

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You mean from the show? I subscribed to that for a day or two...those openers were retarded. "What's better, thug lovin or gangsta lovin?" Hey, that sounds like a great line for .5 percent of the population to use! Assuming actual black people from the ghetto would actually understand a question like that. I'm guessing however that their reaction to such a line would still be "...huh?!? what the hell are you talking about?"

This would be a cool idea if you could get an instantaneous response, but it's SoSuave, not Cha Cha. Besides, then the whole board would be full of topics saying "Sh!t! She insulted my hair. What do I say next?!" and then the answers would have cheesy personality-specific comebacks, or "Next her". I can just imagine a girl giving me a **** test, me pulling out my phone and furiously typing, and me standing there awkwardly not responding until a minute later. LOL
 

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Exhumed said:
You mean from the show? I subscribed to that for a day or two...those openers were retarded. "What's better, thug lovin or gangsta lovin?" Hey, that sounds like a great line for .5 percent of the population to use! Assuming actual black people from the ghetto would actually understand a question like that. I'm guessing however that their reaction to such a line would still be "...huh?!? what the hell are you talking about?"

This would be a cool idea if you could get an instantaneous response, but it's SoSuave, not Cha Cha. Besides, then the whole board would be full of topics saying "Sh!t! She insulted my hair. What do I say next?!" and then the answers would have cheesy personality-specific comebacks, or "Next her". I can just imagine a girl giving me a **** test, me pulling out my phone and furiously typing, and me standing there awkwardly not responding until a minute later. LOL
Thats a valid point, i think it would be cool if the app had voice recognition so one doesnt have to type like an idiot. But I think one will look an idiot regardless
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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better then that, I think a site where someone can post a general question that commonly (or uncommonly) gets asked, and someone can post a response, and it gets voted on whether it is good or not.

It would basically be a site for browsing. something like yahoo answers.
 

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r0cky said:
Ok I'm working on developing a phone app that will make sosuave more useful than ever before. You will be able to receive the best comebacks for questions that girls may ask. For example when you're in the middle of a convo and she says something but you dont know what is the best c&f answer, just type in her question and a sosuave member will respond within seconds. When you submit your question, the app automatically creates a thread without the need to log on to the sosuave website. So you can create threads and receive posts straight to your phone.
If you guys have any input on this I'd love to hear it!
Come on, you are better than that.

Just work on being a man, and you will naturally have a 'cool' reply regardless of what is thrown at you.

Guys will work on getting tips, tricks and techniques to get girls, but they won't work on themselves and become a better man.

Luckily, the truth will out and girls will figure you out.
 

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HAHAHA

So you're going to be 'texting' all night.
Man, this better be a troll.

It's also awkward to stop to 'text' and then come back with an 'awesome' (lame as fuc>, generic PUA line) to a conversational thread that has already died by the time you respond.
 
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