"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Isolation tactics...

toddC

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Okay, I'd search for it but I really want direct help here...

In general what are some types of ways to isolate yourself with a girl...

Now for my specific example...

I've been hanging with this girl maybe once or twice a month for baout 3-4 months (she lives far away)...I have yet to get with her (yes i know pathetic)...but it seems that her friends are ALWAYS by her side. Liek where she goes they go. Anyways it was this past Saturday night and myself and my friend met her and her 2 friends. So were talking and I did EVERYTHING wrong lol besides making myself the center of attention. However, she still seemed liek she was interested but I just couldn't think of a way to get her byherself when her friends were there...HELP ME PLEASE!!! (i'm hanging with her and her friends this weekend again and I want to seal the deal!)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Take her hand and take her for a walk.
 

toddC

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brak, thanks for the reply...that makes a SH*T load of sense and i'll be usign it the next time i hang out with this girl.
 
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