"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Isolation tactics...

toddC

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Okay, I'd search for it but I really want direct help here...

In general what are some types of ways to isolate yourself with a girl...

Now for my specific example...

I've been hanging with this girl maybe once or twice a month for baout 3-4 months (she lives far away)...I have yet to get with her (yes i know pathetic)...but it seems that her friends are ALWAYS by her side. Liek where she goes they go. Anyways it was this past Saturday night and myself and my friend met her and her 2 friends. So were talking and I did EVERYTHING wrong lol besides making myself the center of attention. However, she still seemed liek she was interested but I just couldn't think of a way to get her byherself when her friends were there...HELP ME PLEASE!!! (i'm hanging with her and her friends this weekend again and I want to seal the deal!)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Take her hand and take her for a walk.
 

toddC

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brak, thanks for the reply...that makes a SH*T load of sense and i'll be usign it the next time i hang out with this girl.
 
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