"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Isolation tactics...

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toddC

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Okay, I'd search for it but I really want direct help here...

In general what are some types of ways to isolate yourself with a girl...

Now for my specific example...

I've been hanging with this girl maybe once or twice a month for baout 3-4 months (she lives far away)...I have yet to get with her (yes i know pathetic)...but it seems that her friends are ALWAYS by her side. Liek where she goes they go. Anyways it was this past Saturday night and myself and my friend met her and her 2 friends. So were talking and I did EVERYTHING wrong lol besides making myself the center of attention. However, she still seemed liek she was interested but I just couldn't think of a way to get her byherself when her friends were there...HELP ME PLEASE!!! (i'm hanging with her and her friends this weekend again and I want to seal the deal!)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Take her hand and take her for a walk.
 
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brak, thanks for the reply...that makes a SH*T load of sense and i'll be usign it the next time i hang out with this girl.
 
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