"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Isolating for ph.number - chickened

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Bear with me, I blew a perfectly good chance today :)(), but I also got a question.

I'm attending a Salsa class and there's alot of hot girls in there. I'm actually getting good chemistry with several of them, but one even more than usual. Already during dancing I thought to myself, OK, I'm DEFINITELY going to get the number at the end of class (and not chicken out this time)!

What happened, we switched partners a couple of times and by the end of class I wasn't with her, so I went to ask her as she was leaving. Thing is, she was leaving with another girl, and I more or less froze... I thought "oh **** should I ask her with the friend around" and WHAM they were gone.

**** THAT WAS SO STUPID!
Anyway, how would you go about it? I should have just asked anyway, since she was into me (and the friend was as well). Or should I rather have said something like "can I borrow her for a sec", take her to the side and then ask? How would you have handled it?

I actually intended to get a new number every dance class (but not asking in front of everyone so it doesn't look desperate, and they don't feel cheap etc). I better get some next week, argh!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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P.S. I should add that I'm handling the dancing quite well. Once I've started dancing it's BOOM SEDUCTION MODE. Everything is smooth, a little talk, dancing closer... I'm getting all the signals... But at the end of session WHAM everybody runs away and BOOM missed chance. Still hesitating too much, dunno why :(
 
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Got my sh!t together and took some numbers. Last second save ;)

P.S. if you are reading this, would you ask for a number in front of her friends (if they're friendly)?
 
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No I wouldnt if I'm going to see her friends in class too because then they will all see you getting numbers like crazy and it will be obvious
 
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