Isolating for ph.number - chickened

[Huffman]

Bear with me, I blew a perfectly good chance today (), but I also got a question.

I'm attending a Salsa class and there's alot of hot girls in there. I'm actually getting good chemistry with several of them, but one even more than usual. Already during dancing I thought to myself, OK, I'm DEFINITELY going to get the number at the end of class (and not chicken out this time)!

What happened, we switched partners a couple of times and by the end of class I wasn't with her, so I went to ask her as she was leaving. Thing is, she was leaving with another girl, and I more or less froze... I thought "oh **** should I ask her with the friend around" and WHAM they were gone.

**** THAT WAS SO STUPID!
Anyway, how would you go about it? I should have just asked anyway, since she was into me (and the friend was as well). Or should I rather have said something like "can I borrow her for a sec", take her to the side and then ask? How would you have handled it?

I actually intended to get a new number every dance class (but not asking in front of everyone so it doesn't look desperate, and they don't feel cheap etc). I better get some next week, argh!

 

[Huffman]

P.S. I should add that I'm handling the dancing quite well. Once I've started dancing it's BOOM SEDUCTION MODE. Everything is smooth, a little talk, dancing closer... I'm getting all the signals... But at the end of session WHAM everybody runs away and BOOM missed chance. Still hesitating too much, dunno why

 

[Huffman]

Got my sh!t together and took some numbers. Last second save

P.S. if you are reading this, would you ask for a number in front of her friends (if they're friendly)?

 

[joe henny]

No I wouldnt if I'm going to see her friends in class too because then they will all see you getting numbers like crazy and it will be obvious