PrinceBeavis
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This thread is retarded.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The name is PRINCEBeavis.DJVladdy said:looool with a name "Beavis" i would not use the word retarded... but thats just me
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DJVladdy said:majority of males are not "men" (im talking USA), because of 1 reason: they don't know any ****en better.
that's all they know: they are taught to not be men, and how to act/ not act ... by teachers, media, at home, etc... so if that's all they've been exposed to, then u cant blame them.
I'm right with 'ya. There's just seems to be a growing wave through the forum polarizing the sexes again and yes, people in general have changed. It just seems that there are people people who seem to have difficulty making adjustments to keep things in balance.penkitten said:right, i didnt mean all men, i might in general... just like everyone else meant women in general and not all women.
:nono: Troublemaker...WaterTiger said:Sooo...what you're saying is, that the problem with women...is men?
(I'm gonna get killed for that one!)
Yes. The guy I'm talkin about just got back from the Ukraine come to think of it. He was checkin up on some missionary work there, to see if they were using our money as good stewards.meitenesrigas said:All I know is the Brezhnev would have sliced and diced any sign of feminism coming out of the old Soviet Union. Hence, why some girls on this earth still live to serve men. Thank God the Soviets were radical social conservatives.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
would be faireer and beter, the only thing more u need to do is selectiveyl abort the male babies so that there are much more women than men.Francisco d'Anconia said:Aside from the political part, I agree with you. There's huge genre of men of various political, socio-economic and cultural backgrounds who'd prefer women to be indentured to them.
Oooo, you're evil!spd said:would be faireer and beter, the only thing more u need to do is selectiveyl abort the male babies so that there are much more women than men.
It started with the 60s, the hippies!Sandow said:Not sure how it all started though. But it's being accepted, I know that.