PrinceBeavis
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This thread is retarded.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The name is PRINCEBeavis.DJVladdy said:looool with a name "Beavis" i would not use the word retarded... but thats just me
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DJVladdy said:majority of males are not "men" (im talking USA), because of 1 reason: they don't know any ****en better.
that's all they know: they are taught to not be men, and how to act/ not act ... by teachers, media, at home, etc... so if that's all they've been exposed to, then u cant blame them.
I'm right with 'ya. There's just seems to be a growing wave through the forum polarizing the sexes again and yes, people in general have changed. It just seems that there are people people who seem to have difficulty making adjustments to keep things in balance.penkitten said:right, i didnt mean all men, i might in general... just like everyone else meant women in general and not all women.
:nono: Troublemaker...WaterTiger said:Sooo...what you're saying is, that the problem with women...is men?
(I'm gonna get killed for that one!)
Yes. The guy I'm talkin about just got back from the Ukraine come to think of it. He was checkin up on some missionary work there, to see if they were using our money as good stewards.meitenesrigas said:All I know is the Brezhnev would have sliced and diced any sign of feminism coming out of the old Soviet Union. Hence, why some girls on this earth still live to serve men. Thank God the Soviets were radical social conservatives.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
would be faireer and beter, the only thing more u need to do is selectiveyl abort the male babies so that there are much more women than men.Francisco d'Anconia said:Aside from the political part, I agree with you. There's huge genre of men of various political, socio-economic and cultural backgrounds who'd prefer women to be indentured to them.
Oooo, you're evil!spd said:would be faireer and beter, the only thing more u need to do is selectiveyl abort the male babies so that there are much more women than men.
It started with the 60s, the hippies!Sandow said:Not sure how it all started though. But it's being accepted, I know that.