"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how much of a **** you have to be when in 'the game'. i've triple booked dates for tomorrow, not because i want to mess anybody around or keep my options open, but just because i know how much these bvtches flake.

i wouldn't dream of doing this to friends. and once upon a time i wouldn't have dreamed of doing it to women.

there's no doubt this is the right thing to do, unfortunately the red pill hardly makes you a better person. i'm almost nostalgic for those days of innocence and integrity.

almost.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how much of a **** you have to be when in 'the game'. i've triple booked dates for tomorrow, not because i want to mess anybody around or keep my options open, but just because i know how much these bvtches flake.
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Triple book? As in 3 dates in one night or 3 dates all at the same time and you are going to only one? I get that women flake more now than ever.....but if you are speaking of the latter....its just not "economical".

I would much rather schedule 3 dates on different nights....and if one flakes....i can find something to do.

there's no doubt this is the right thing to do, unfortunately the red pill hardly makes you a better person. i'm almost nostalgic for those days of innocence and integrity.

almost.
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I hear you on that....its a tough thing to become unplugged.

Eventually when you learn to internalize everything and change your mindset and start to see women for what they are....you no longer look down on them. They simply are what they are.
 
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If you're online dating triple booking is smart. Time wasters are the norm haha.
 
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One of them I met in NY some time back and we know each other reasonably well (she basically likes me a lot purely because I'm totally unavailable to her). One is online but we have met three times before but she has shown signs of flaking. One of them is online for the first time but she seems keen.

Triple booking seems over the top to me too, ridiculous in fact, but this is what it has come to.
 
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Two of these bishes flaked!!! This is what I'm talking about, lol. My triple booking was correct. I know some of you guys are going to give me flak about how I must be doing something wrong - save it though, I may well be but I'm not bothered.

I'm going to flake on the third bish (if she doesn't get there first) and go to bars and meet new women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yo'Mama said:
Two of these bishes flaked!!! This is what I'm talking about, lol. My triple booking was correct. I know some of you guys are going to give me flak about how I must be doing something wrong - save it though, I may well be but I'm not bothered.

I'm going to flake on the third bish (if she doesn't get there first) and go to bars and meet new women.
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New women who flake?
 
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I'm going to flake on the third bish (if she doesn't get there first) and go to bars and meet new women.
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That makes no sense at all unless she was a dog to begin with.
 
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She's not, she's fairly hot. About a HB7 I think. But she's TOO keen. I've known her a while and she thinks she's in love with me, just because I'm so indifferent. I'd rather go out and try to hook up with new girls. What can I say, I love a challenge.
 
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