"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Isn't it amazing....

Yo'Mama

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how much of a **** you have to be when in 'the game'. i've triple booked dates for tomorrow, not because i want to mess anybody around or keep my options open, but just because i know how much these bvtches flake.

i wouldn't dream of doing this to friends. and once upon a time i wouldn't have dreamed of doing it to women.

there's no doubt this is the right thing to do, unfortunately the red pill hardly makes you a better person. i'm almost nostalgic for those days of innocence and integrity.

almost.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yo'Mama said:
how much of a **** you have to be when in 'the game'. i've triple booked dates for tomorrow, not because i want to mess anybody around or keep my options open, but just because i know how much these bvtches flake.
Triple book? As in 3 dates in one night or 3 dates all at the same time and you are going to only one? I get that women flake more now than ever.....but if you are speaking of the latter....its just not "economical".

I would much rather schedule 3 dates on different nights....and if one flakes....i can find something to do.

there's no doubt this is the right thing to do, unfortunately the red pill hardly makes you a better person. i'm almost nostalgic for those days of innocence and integrity.

almost.
I hear you on that....its a tough thing to become unplugged.

Eventually when you learn to internalize everything and change your mindset and start to see women for what they are....you no longer look down on them. They simply are what they are.
 

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If you're online dating triple booking is smart. Time wasters are the norm haha.
 

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One of them I met in NY some time back and we know each other reasonably well (she basically likes me a lot purely because I'm totally unavailable to her). One is online but we have met three times before but she has shown signs of flaking. One of them is online for the first time but she seems keen.

Triple booking seems over the top to me too, ridiculous in fact, but this is what it has come to.
 

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Two of these bishes flaked!!! This is what I'm talking about, lol. My triple booking was correct. I know some of you guys are going to give me flak about how I must be doing something wrong - save it though, I may well be but I'm not bothered.

I'm going to flake on the third bish (if she doesn't get there first) and go to bars and meet new women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yo'Mama said:
Two of these bishes flaked!!! This is what I'm talking about, lol. My triple booking was correct. I know some of you guys are going to give me flak about how I must be doing something wrong - save it though, I may well be but I'm not bothered.

I'm going to flake on the third bish (if she doesn't get there first) and go to bars and meet new women.
New women who flake?
 

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I'm going to flake on the third bish (if she doesn't get there first) and go to bars and meet new women.
That makes no sense at all unless she was a dog to begin with.
 

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She's not, she's fairly hot. About a HB7 I think. But she's TOO keen. I've known her a while and she thinks she's in love with me, just because I'm so indifferent. I'd rather go out and try to hook up with new girls. What can I say, I love a challenge.
 
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