"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Isn't it all about a mind game?

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A woman knows internally if she's hot or not (by feedback from AFCs etc). Your job is to create doubts about that and to increase belief in Your image. The more you can get an obviously Hot girl to begin to doubt her hotness, the more chance you have at making her dependent on Your opinion of her, as being the end all, be all, or her Maker.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Poonani Maker said:
A woman knows internally if she's hot or not (by feedback from AFCs etc). Your job is to create doubts about that and to increase belief in Your image. The more you can get an obviously Hot girl to begin to doubt her hotness, the more chance you have at making her dependent on Your opinion of her, as being the end all, be all, or her Maker.

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I see what you're saying, but, really, I've had more success in letting her THINK she's hot, and playing off THAT.

just my 2-bits.

I just ignore it ALL, and move in.


But what you wrote sounds ok, too.

I dunno.

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if a girl is hot..chances are she is aware of her looks and her effects on men.I find it best to just ignore her looks completely and treat her how she deserves to be treated..if she is snooty,I call her on it..if she is a brat,I say so and so forth.Beauty is not a pass for all sorts of behavior you wouldn't normally put up with from anyone else..that's how I see it as.

Don't get me wrong,I will appreciate it but won't judge her solely by it..
 

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Reluctant_Seducer said:
if a girl is hot..chances are she is aware of her looks and her effects on men.I find it best to just ignore her looks completely and treat her how she deserves to be treated..if she is snooty,I call her on it..if she is a brat,I say so and so forth.Beauty is not a pass for all sorts of behavior you wouldn't normally put up with from anyone else..that's how I see it as.

Don't get me wrong,I will appreciate it but won't judge her solely by it..
Women, will use this tactic on me(or it could just be her genuine change in treatment of me or opinion of me). Just this last weekend a chick who's been chasing me a little for about a month, I caught her looking at me a few times Sunday, and I didn't smile or waves I just acted nonchalant. Well, after that she was flirting with EVERY guy besides me (kino involved, joking around). I guess she doesn't want me anymore. She's tired of waiting, and she's Way younger. Those younger ones are harder to deal with because they can write you off in a heartbeat on some whimsical thought of you, even though you've attracted her from the start repeatedly, over and over, she's been attracted IOIs etc. Now, she's written me off, I think, bc I'm not being touchy with her I guess or aggressive, but I don't care. There are others, but she is definitely the type I am looking for to make a baby.
 

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beauty is all about sex. Think about it when a woman is beautiful you are invariably only thinking about sex. period.

so yea, i would let her know that if she has to prove to me what she is really 'worth' beuaty has no say in it (cuz that is only to COPULATE and nothing else)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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