"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Isn't it all about a mind game?

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A woman knows internally if she's hot or not (by feedback from AFCs etc). Your job is to create doubts about that and to increase belief in Your image. The more you can get an obviously Hot girl to begin to doubt her hotness, the more chance you have at making her dependent on Your opinion of her, as being the end all, be all, or her Maker.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Poonani Maker said:
A woman knows internally if she's hot or not (by feedback from AFCs etc). Your job is to create doubts about that and to increase belief in Your image. The more you can get an obviously Hot girl to begin to doubt her hotness, the more chance you have at making her dependent on Your opinion of her, as being the end all, be all, or her Maker.

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I see what you're saying, but, really, I've had more success in letting her THINK she's hot, and playing off THAT.

just my 2-bits.

I just ignore it ALL, and move in.


But what you wrote sounds ok, too.

I dunno.

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if a girl is hot..chances are she is aware of her looks and her effects on men.I find it best to just ignore her looks completely and treat her how she deserves to be treated..if she is snooty,I call her on it..if she is a brat,I say so and so forth.Beauty is not a pass for all sorts of behavior you wouldn't normally put up with from anyone else..that's how I see it as.

Don't get me wrong,I will appreciate it but won't judge her solely by it..
 

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Reluctant_Seducer said:
if a girl is hot..chances are she is aware of her looks and her effects on men.I find it best to just ignore her looks completely and treat her how she deserves to be treated..if she is snooty,I call her on it..if she is a brat,I say so and so forth.Beauty is not a pass for all sorts of behavior you wouldn't normally put up with from anyone else..that's how I see it as.

Don't get me wrong,I will appreciate it but won't judge her solely by it..
Women, will use this tactic on me(or it could just be her genuine change in treatment of me or opinion of me). Just this last weekend a chick who's been chasing me a little for about a month, I caught her looking at me a few times Sunday, and I didn't smile or waves I just acted nonchalant. Well, after that she was flirting with EVERY guy besides me (kino involved, joking around). I guess she doesn't want me anymore. She's tired of waiting, and she's Way younger. Those younger ones are harder to deal with because they can write you off in a heartbeat on some whimsical thought of you, even though you've attracted her from the start repeatedly, over and over, she's been attracted IOIs etc. Now, she's written me off, I think, bc I'm not being touchy with her I guess or aggressive, but I don't care. There are others, but she is definitely the type I am looking for to make a baby.
 

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beauty is all about sex. Think about it when a woman is beautiful you are invariably only thinking about sex. period.

so yea, i would let her know that if she has to prove to me what she is really 'worth' beuaty has no say in it (cuz that is only to COPULATE and nothing else)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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