"Have a nice day" was legitimate. And your post was very eloquent but it doesn't take away from the fact it's pure nonsense.
You attacked deesade for an innocuous comment. I highlighted the fact this reflects more on your current emotional state than anything else. It's not that complicated.
It's Saturday. Relax. Don't expect another reply brother.
Oh dear. He's got himself into a right tizzy.
More "invalidation" that's typical of women...psychologically it's called "cutting communication"
Let's unravel his absurd tizzy.....
He get's triggered by something I wrote to another poster..........
and responds to me with something both
inflammatory and illegible......"da fuq is wrong with you?" There's a question mark, so one can
only assume that he was looking for a response. But really with an inflammatory comment like that he's probably more looking for a reaction. Again, it's a loaded, inflammatory question.
If he wanted to communicate like an adult man he could have written something like "excuse me my good man, but I have a query about something you wrote to another poster. I do feel you were being terribly unkind but as a respectful adult man I am willing to listen if you would be so kind as to elaborate"
I disparage his manner of communicating and generously offer him the chance to write a coherent and adult question that I would be more than willing to respond to.
He refuses the opportunity to communicating his question thus amplifying the fact that his intention was only to inflame and to incite.
Instead he throws down the feminist shaming chestnut of the charge of irascibility. Ah when a women comes up against an assertive man and throws him an inflammatory comment and the assertive man does not take the bait.......what does she do? "don't be angry!!!!" of course this charge of irascibility is usually thrown out when the woman has nowhere to go, in other words she has no coherent argument and she wishes for the man to take the bait and say "hey I'm not fvcking angry!!!!" and thus the man gets slightly angry by the accusation and then the issue becomes about whether the man is angry or not.......and there original argument get's conveniently lost! Cunning aren't they?
Gents, what do we do when they throw down the charge of irascibility? We don't take the bait. We smile and recognize it for what it is and a we can if we so choose, point out the shaming language.
Seeing that your not taking the bait with their attempts, what does she resort to? sometimes more shaming or sometimes, like in the case of
this poster......they will attempt to
invalidate you further........how?......by
cutting communication...
When someone that's emotionally immature has failed to bait you, they will cut the conversation and storm off.
Of course, one must wonder why
this poster got so triggered.........at a guess I would say he his genuinely working hard in his life and is seeing
some success with his goals..........but....he is not getting the
external validation that he so desperately craves.....
