You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
there goes the fishOriginally posted by diplomatic_lies
Just drop your hard drive in the river.
Yes, but most people don't care about your Freecell high scores and 8 gigs of porn.Originally posted by Interpol
That's true about hard drives...To completely erase a hard drive so that no traces of the original material can be recovered, you need to erase everything, rewrite over it with "junk" data, and then erase it again, and repeat that process seven times.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
...which is why my advice is not applicable to youOriginally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Yes, but most people don't care about your Freecell high scores and 8 gigs of porn.
BOO YA!Originally posted by Interpol
...which is why my advice is not applicable to you
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The only thing that's wrong with that is that there are idiots who would spend $495.00 on it.Originally posted by tactic
Ross Jeffries' seminar schedule.. tell me what's wrong with this
Magick / Psychic Influence Seminar
Location & Date:
Los Angeles, CA - July 29-31
Seminar Price:
$495.00
But... but... there might be people monitoring your trash... and all the trash you ever use... and... they might... like... collect all the pieces or something... and then they might reconstruct what's on your hard drive... and then... then something bad might happen.Originally posted by Alpine
If you are really paranoid, take out the platers from the hard disk, saw them up in parallel strips and dispose of one strip every so often.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.