Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
there goes the fishOriginally posted by diplomatic_lies
Just drop your hard drive in the river.
Yes, but most people don't care about your Freecell high scores and 8 gigs of porn.Originally posted by Interpol
That's true about hard drives...To completely erase a hard drive so that no traces of the original material can be recovered, you need to erase everything, rewrite over it with "junk" data, and then erase it again, and repeat that process seven times.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
...which is why my advice is not applicable to youOriginally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Yes, but most people don't care about your Freecell high scores and 8 gigs of porn.
BOO YA!Originally posted by Interpol
...which is why my advice is not applicable to you
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
The only thing that's wrong with that is that there are idiots who would spend $495.00 on it.Originally posted by tactic
Ross Jeffries' seminar schedule.. tell me what's wrong with this
Magick / Psychic Influence Seminar
Location & Date:
Los Angeles, CA - July 29-31
Seminar Price:
$495.00
But... but... there might be people monitoring your trash... and all the trash you ever use... and... they might... like... collect all the pieces or something... and then they might reconstruct what's on your hard drive... and then... then something bad might happen.Originally posted by Alpine
If you are really paranoid, take out the platers from the hard disk, saw them up in parallel strips and dispose of one strip every so often.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.