"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is your ideal girl inexperienced?

TheCWord

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Whenever I think about what longterm girlfriend quality means to me, I imagine the girl being as close to virginal as possible.

I am also a self-aware hypocrite. I've slept with around 30 women yet I think my ceiling for my ideal GF would be 5.

That said, I was recently banging a girl who I think had only been with ONE other guy before me... I would've thought it was PERFECT... FINALLY, the girl for ME!...

...but the sex was HORRIBLE.

I'm being dramatic. Sex is like pizza, even when it's bad it's still pretty good. But you know what I mean. It felt clumsy and I had to really concentrate in order to climax. She wouldn't swallow. I had to guide her every which way so it was like tossing a 100+lb paperweight around. Plus I think her lack of relationship experience overall made even fully clothed interactions feel less invigorating than I'd like them to be.

What's your philosophy?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zekko

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I think the best case would be somewhere in between. If she doesn't know anything, that can be a pain in the arse. Then again, you don't want her to be overly experienced - you don't want her to have had 100 different c0cks in her.
 

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Either completely virginal or experienced. Both for different reasons.. Waste of time to spend it on an in-between. You get neither of the best of both worlds. Inexperienced ones have full of insane ideas in their heads of how things "ought to be!!".
 

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i like girls with enough experience to know what she is doing, but its nice to have a chick that has a few things on her list that you can still cross off if you get adventurous with her.
I think having a chick that can make herself *** is KEY too. Chicks that masturbate are always better in bed, IMHO.
 

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This is a really good topic. I been with both kind of girls on the extreme. Most men would strive for the non experienced girl when it comes to a relationship. It does sound cliche but you do have to find the girl in the middle.

We get so spoiled with porn, we tend to think sex will look like that. I been with girls who never watched porn or watched very minimally, and they wouldn't know what to do or know any other positions other then missionary!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JoeMarron

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
If you are alpha you can make inexperienced women do what you want.
Exactly. They become your sex slave and you mold them into whatever image you want. My chick was very inexperienced and after a bit of work, if you could actually call it work, I've turned her into a sex fiend who does whatever I want.
 

foreverAFC

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being with an experienced woman who already knows exactly what you want and like can be so amazing
 
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